AjustableTableLamp Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 I want to ask her out but she's a total stranger. I was thinking of saying: "Hi (squeeze in a reason to talk to her and a joke). Anyway, my name is ___ (ask for hers?) . I didn't really get the chance to talk to you in the last few days but I think you look really good (appropriate thing to say in my language) and I would like to go _____ to get to know you better.". Is this a good idea? I only have 10 minutes to make a move so I can't really get into a deep conversation with her.
Chs Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 I want to ask her out but she's a total stranger. I was thinking of saying: "Hi (squeeze in a reason to talk to her and a joke). Anyway, my name is ___ (ask for hers?) . I didn't really get the chance to talk to you in the last few days but I think you look really good (appropriate thing to say in my language) and I would like to go _____ to get to know you better.". Is this a good idea? I only have 10 minutes to make a move so I can't really get into a deep conversation with her. I think your approach sounds a little corny, and too rehearsed. Mainly the "i would like to get to know you better" Just open with something casual, that fits your personality. She ever looks at you? Personally i would go with something like "Hey there, you shy? Because we have waited at this bus stop a few times and you still haven't come over to say hi" But if something cocky like that doesen't come natural to you then don't try it.
TaraMaiden Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Wait until your bus is approaching, then grab the opportunity.... Just say - "I'm quite shy, and definitely not a stalker... i don't want to bother you, so if you'd like a coffee sometime, call me." and give her your 'phone number. then smile, and get on the bus, and sit w.a.a.a.y away from her, and leave her be. don't look at her, don't make eye contact, don't try anything further. It's how my cousin met his wife......
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 If you see her all of the time you don't have to be so forward, just try to strike up a friendly conversation first, ask her a question about something related or unrelated about destination or what not, something that doesn't make her feel uncomfortable and like she's being approached necessarily. Once you get a reaction for how she feels or is acting then you can start making general conversation and maybe even start sitting next to her on the bus. Or you can just go for it on that one shot and ask her If she'd like to try out a place you've been wanting to eat but didn't want to go alone. Just don't over-think it and have that "im hitting on you" vibe, just been normal and casual/friendly, and she can decide whether she likes you enough to go on a date with you. If she declines then it won't be super awkward when you see her at the bus stop, which is why I wouldn't recommend pressing too hard and being too direct.
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