eggerspeed Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Me and my girlfriend of two and a half years broke up last September. It was me that did it. After a month I realised what a stupid mistake I had made. I realised how much I truly loved her after we broke up. So I tried to get her back and it worked. We decided to be exclusive to each other and take it slow. This was all fine until after about a month and she called me over and ended it with me saying she couldn't do it as I had hurt her too much and she had already tried to get over me. I was so upset by this but I thought there is nothing I can do so I didn't speak to her. Another month later I get a call of her saying how much she misses me and all that. I obviously still want her back so was saying stuff like I miss you back to her. We then met up during the next week and it was as if we were back together (cuddles kisses, sex ect) but I ask her about me and her getting back and she would say 'I don't want a relationship right now.... Maybe in 5 years' 'youre in the friend zone' similar stuff to that. So I've been seeing her maybe once a week since that and it's exactely the same every time. I go round. We act as if we are together and then when I leave there is no communication. I love seeing her but I'm fed up of everytime I go round I get hurt (being treated like her boyfriend) but on the other hand I love it cus it's what I want but she doesnt seem to want it. I'm so confused all I want is to get her back. I've never had anyone love me like she did and it's just so strange to see what she is like now. Can anyone help
TaraMaiden Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Yes. You've become a FWB. If you're happy to continue enjoying each other for sex and the fun company, great. If not - then you have to close this down, fast and for good. Please check the Caliguy no contact guide in my signature. If you 100% stick to it, 100% of the time - then you'll both get over this more quickly. This is so unfair.....she's preventing you from moving on. And it is her controlling this, because if she meets someone else, she won't hesitate to call it a day with you. she might keep you on the back-burner as the rebound guy/whipping post - but essentially, either way - you're done for......
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