flower_petal Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months. It's a long distance thing (150 miles) so I don't see him all that often but we call and text everyday. We never said that we were exclusive or that we were boyfriend/girlfriend. I went out for a few drinks last night and ended up ridiculously drunk. A good looking (but really annoying) boy tried to come onto me and for literally 3 seconds he kissed me on the mouth. I didn't full on kiss him but he did do it a few times and, because I was so intoxicated, I initially let him before pulling away. I was holding his hand at one point (mainly so he could hold me up!). So anyway, I was on the phone about an hour later to the guy and he asked me to be his girlfriend. Now I'm feeling racked with guilt and as though I have cheated! We weren't together when it happened and never have we ever said that we could not see/kiss other people until he said I was his girlfriend. I have never cheated on anybody in my life but I feel terrible! Should I tell him or just leave it be and move on with our NOW relationship?
TaraMaiden Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Oh stop it...... One - if you can't hold your drink - don't drink. People do stupid, dumb, idiotic things when they're drunk - even though it's never the drink's fault - it's always theirs..... Two - it was a drunken kiss, and before you were exclusive. Draw a line under it, and forget it. Three - read your own post as if it were written by a complete stranger... What would you tell her to do? Go and do likewise.
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