jobaba Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 (edited) Sometimes I think people can't step outside of their world and see how it is for some others. This is a good vid I came across. I think when people here think older virgin they think 'Bitter mid to late 20s man who has no social skills and rarely approaches women.' This will change your perspective. Check it out. Warning ... it's long. Watch the end where she talks about what she considers former 'loves'. I think it may blow some peoples' minds. Consider this is also rare footage. Most older virgins will not come out and agree to be filmed for the world to see for obvious reasons. Incel Video: IncelSupport Member, Late 30's - YouTube Edited March 24, 2012 by jobaba
ThaWholigan Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 I've seen this video a couple of years back. This woman was ridiculed greatly on an old forum I was on a while back (don't ask, I should never have gone to that forum). It is certainly an interesting watch
El Brujo Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Personally I dislike the term "incel" because it makes it sound like the person feels gypped, when they're really not.
somedude81 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Anybody want to give the cliffnotes on that? She's not that bad looking and if she bothered to lose some weight she wouldn't have any trouble. Hell, I seriously doubt that she's never gotten any male attention. Personally I dislike the term "incel" because it makes it sound like the person feels gypped, when they're really not. OK, so how are we not gypped
Dust Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 I'm watching it now. She kind of sounds like a man the way she complains about it. I truely believe women have it easier in this situation because agressive men will eventualy hit on them if they just put themselves ou there... well atleast they are likely to be hit on. While being skinny is impossible for some it isn't the hardest thing to do for most if you just work at it. That alone will get you men. With men if they just change their mindset they have a way better shot then women. Somedude is proof of a man who refuses to change his mindset and just asks over and over again what do I need to do. Change your mind set and just do it and don't stop doing it we say. He says "I can't." I've often said to people on here who fit the "incel" description is come out to where I live take a vacation and I will show you how to have fun getting girls. Because that is the key have fun doing it. Not that hard once you get that mind set of having fun being aggressive or just being you with women. I'm still watching the video with the girl its entertaining. It's 8 minutes in and its just a bunch of excuses things like "I've never had a relationship but four times I could have had a relationship" she sounds just like a man who talks about this stuff lol.
somedude81 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 A "changed mindset" isn't suddenly going to make women start saying yes to me.
Jeremy87 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Anybody want to give the cliffnotes on that? She's not that bad looking and if she bothered to lose some weight she wouldn't have any trouble. Hell, I seriously doubt that she's never gotten any male attention. OK, so how are we not gypped Are you fat?
somedude81 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 (edited) Are you fat? Nope. But I'm short. White, 5'6, 153lbs and more muscle then you'd expect on a guy my height. Edited March 24, 2012 by somedude81
Jeremy87 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Nope. But I'm short. White, 5'6, 153lbs and more muscle then you'd expect on a guy my height. Less muscle than me.
somedude81 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Less muscle than me. And ignored. I forgot that you were just a troll.
Jeremy87 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 And ignored. I forgot that you were just a troll. when you can't stand the heat you call others trolls. LOL
Dust Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Heres a video about a woman talking about incel men. I found it on the same page of the video linked in the OP Incel Video--Dr. Carpenter 2 - YouTube
Dust Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 This one here kind of makes all of Somedudes arguments for him. Incel Video--Dr. Gilmartin 2 - YouTube
Jeremy87 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 This one here kind of makes all of Somedudes arguments for him. Incel Video--Dr. Gilmartin 2 - YouTube somedude is fat
somedude81 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 (edited) Heres a video about a woman talking about incel men. I found it on the same page of the video linked in the OP Incel Video--Dr. Carpenter 2 - YouTube Yeah, she knows what she's talking about. Here's one focusing on incel men http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFq8bDJvBas Edited March 24, 2012 by somedude81
Dust Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Yeah, she knows what she's talking about. Here's one focusing on incel men Dr. Gilmartin - Involuntary Celibacy in Males - YouTube Yeah thats the same guy in a different video then the second link I put up. In the video I put up he makes a lot of your points. I still feel its a matter of overcoming your anxiety and just doing it and risking rejection. I'm having a similar problem to you as far as my career goes right now. I'm good with women, but I'm so afraid to fail in my career that I'm playing it far to safe. Go hitting on women or what ever that sounds fun. Go networking or looking for a job and I'm terrified seriously. Although I realize I'm not as afraid of working as you are of women. When I was younger I couldn't speak around girls I found pretty. I could barely move. I snapped out of that in college and started dating seriously at 22. You just need to snap out of it. Though I agree it may be imposible for you if you believe its impossible. What about taking an anti anxiety medication. Normaly I'm against medication but maybe you could take it just long enough to break the physical barrier with women. Finally I throw it out to you all the time. get your butt down here and visit me. I'll show you how its done first hand. I'm not a PUA just a guy who knows how to have fun.
somedude81 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Yeah thats the same guy in a different video then the second link I put up. In the video I put up he makes a lot of your points. I still feel its a matter of overcoming your anxiety and just doing it and risking rejection. I'm having a similar problem to you as far as my career goes right now. I'm good with women, but I'm so afraid to fail in my career that I'm playing it far to safe. Go hitting on women or what ever that sounds fun. Go networking or looking for a job and I'm terrified seriously. Although I realize I'm not as afraid of working as you are of women. Aside from the fact that I'm not afraid of women, it does sound similar. When I was younger I couldn't speak around girls I found pretty. I could barely move. I snapped out of that in college and started dating seriously at 22. Sorry, not buying that. Don't forget that you posted your story of how you got started. I'm sure you remember my response.
Dust Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 Sorry, not buying that. Don't forget that you posted your story of how you got started. I'm sure you remember my response. Yeah you think I just got lucky and that some how cured me. Look come out and visit on vacation I'll show you that you can do it to. I'm not promising you'll get laid by some hot chick. But at a very minimum I'll show you how to have fun flirting with girls and no doubt you'll kiss one. Let me change your mind.
irin Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 dammit i used think i want stay virgin till death, now im confused.
Author jobaba Posted March 24, 2012 Author Posted March 24, 2012 Anybody want to give the cliffnotes on that? She's not that bad looking and if she bothered to lose some weight she wouldn't have any trouble. Hell, I seriously doubt that she's never gotten any male attention. If you think that, then there's absolutely nothing stopping you from getting a girlfriend like by this summer. I actually don't think she's attractive but I probably could find her attractive. I really rather appreciate her view on society.
Author jobaba Posted March 24, 2012 Author Posted March 24, 2012 Yeah, she knows what she's talking about. Here's one focusing on incel men Dr. Gilmartin - Involuntary Celibacy in Males - YouTube Yea, that woman was awesome. I guess THAT is what you do with a Psych doctorate. The male professor is funny. His tone makes me feel like he's giving an orientation on your first day of work as a stock boy at Walmart.
Ariadne Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Consider this is also rare footage. That was pretty interesting, thanks for sharing. I watched a few other incels as well, at least they are similar in a way. This about celibacy showed up in my search and I wanted to share it as well for a different take.
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