jmm Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 I will try to make this short and hopefully someone can realize why it's not black and white for me. I started texting and talking with a guy from online mid January. We live about 3 hours apart but it didn't seem to be an issue. We basically have texted or spoke each day or night since then. Sometimes it was more texting but we have always been in some contact each day. He seemed very genuine and interested and just a nice guy. He has a daughter as well who he saw more often than his ex. He treats the daughter very well. We met a few days before valentines day. We had a good time and kissed as well. No games were being played really. Still communicated that night and each day after. He sent me flowers for valentines day. I visted him for the second time and stayed over. Nothing too physical happened and he told me that of course he wants to do more but there isn't pressure etc. He was very sweet. Basically the second time he also said he wants me to be his girlfriend and knew from the first date. I was supposed to come up last weekend but it was a stressful weekend in terms of his daughter. Still the same communication. We spoke for an hour or more on the phone Tuesday night. He was telling me more about his family and also mentioned how he can get a sitter and said I can come up to see him if i want to. I joked saying if you want me to and he said yes, and that he missed me. We got off the phone around midnight The next day we didn't talk til 1pm. He texted he slept way too late. We joked back and forth..two hours later he mentioned he was at the park with her (his daughter) Later on i didn't hear from him which i thought was still our normal routine. I texted him at 9:30pm and no response. I figured he went to sleep. Thursday is when i started freaking out because he always texts me in the morning or early afternoon. Nothing--i text him at 3pm if everything was ok with him? and also sent a few more later on how it's weird I haven't heard anything from him and is he ok? I also sent a voicemail with confirmation receipt--meaning when he listens to it i should get some notification that it was listened to. Also, if it didn't go through and wasn't successful i would think I would get some notice on that as well and I haven't received anything. So either--he doesn't have his phone and hasn't been able to listen to voicemails or it's not working and he just blew me off. I tested it on friends who didn't have the same cell service and i received vmails how it wasn't successful. So i am assuming it worked for him but he didn't listen to anything. Now today is friday and still no word. Things just don't seem to be adding up. It just doesn't seem like something he would do especially since we have been in contact everyday and I was supposed to come up tomorrow We arent facebook friends but i decided to look him up and email him a message explaining how i feel. (He doesnt have a computer and uses his phone--but his roomate has a cell phone) He also hasn't posted anything on there in months. I checked the dating site and he still isn't active on it. It made me think maybe someone he knows saw me on a dating site and he is mad. I have been on a few checking to see if maybe he is still on them but i haven't been talking or dating anyone else. I just don't get this. I have been blown off before but this seems very suprising and it's just not adding up to me....
ponsettia Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Sorry, but I think he's moved on... I've had that happen to me many many times with guys online, they're interested, then all of a sudden there's no contact.
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