So, does anyone have an answer to this?

[350ci_montecarlo]

hey, new to the site, a friend of mine told me to try the site out, gotta say its pretty sweet.. Ok, About 5 years ago i met this girl at a party and we really hit it off, I really liked her. Me being me, i was a little bit of a trouble maker, so much that my parents shipped me across canada and i had to live with my uncle in alberta who sent me to military school, i then joined the armed forces and became a aircraft mechanic. Long story short, the military set me straight. The last time i saw this girl was 5 years ago and it was around 3 days before i got sent out, my parents didn't even tell me i was going, i got home one day and i was gone the next. I didn't tell her, didn't even have a chance. She took it as i used her for a one night thing, which in reality i wanted an LTR with her, she then left a nasty email in my inbox. Two months later when i finally could access a computer with internet, i read it and i felt so bad, i never replyed back which i really regret now. So i just came back into town recently and i found her on face book, sent her a message saying "hey, whats up.. how are you?" she didn't reply. I guess i wasnt expecting her to.. So, should i tell her the story or let it go?. For 5 years i dreamed of comming home and seeing her and hopefully holding her again, but maybe its time to let it go. Thats why i'm here. I know if i send her another message over fb i might come off weird, or needy. So i dunno.

 

Thanks for any advice!

[phineas]

Does she have a BF?

 

But seriously, you fell off the face of the earth for 5 yrs.

What did you expect?

[sand26]

Dude!

Tell her the story. Every important detail.

She deserves to know.

 

 

-J

[350ci_montecarlo]

Ya, i know she probably moved on, her status on fb doesn't show shes in a relationship but she could possibly be. Its my own fault for not keeping in touch, i'm gonna wait another day and think some more about it before i send her a second message.

[mickleb]

Forget her. I think it's a bit unhealthy that you dreamed of an LTR with her for 5 years, after one night, and would imagine she'd feel the same way.

 

If you happen to bump into her, then maybe just try to charm her and, if you get to know her better, you can explain what happened. In the meantime, learn how to move along.

[mustang guy]

good to see you joined the forum, alot of good advice on here man! btw, nice nickname, lol.

[dasein]

Call her or go see her, not text, not FB message, not email. Explain what happened. Regardless of whether anything develops or her status, it will be good for both of you IMO.