Pakisa Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I married in July of last year and have been living with my husbands family ever since. Love them! My mother in law and I are the best of friends, everything is amazing. The only problem is....my husband. I feel like he doesn't care about me. He's always moody, he never seems to realize that there is someone else in the relationship too. That it's not always about him. I honestly think that I'm the best wife out there (only problem is...I don't cook) I'm the most patient, forgiving, loving person ever. I KNOW he takes advantage of it. I've turned him into a little brat, and now I'm just SO fed up with it. I used to do everything for him, still kind of do but now it's like he expects me to do it. He doesn't appreciate half the things I do. I knw the first year of marriage is hard but I thought both people make mistakes, not just one person, over and over. Please help, I feel so depressed.
MeiGuan Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I don´t understand why your husband´s behavior will change after marriage. The only thing I can think of is that he has never been in love with you or you both have never been in love. I don´t know you but this sounds like an arranged-marriage to me, which is a love-less marriage. If you signed up for that, don´t complain and stay. If you want a real marriage and relationship, you have your life ahead of you and go on without him.
rickys Posted April 6, 2012 Posted April 6, 2012 Relax....This is the problem of almost every married couple. As the time passes, feelings may be same as you and your husband think... Solution is that do something new and different that you never done in the past. Best example would be to start cooking and surprise him by cooking food for him.. second thing, try to find out that, what he really wants to hear from you...
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