freetolove Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 My ex bf is really annoying. My ex boyfriend overall is a nice guy but I broke up with me because he was very cheap (rich but cheap), a few other things were he was overly sensitive, low self esteem and honestly had a small penis. I'm far from perfect but I just felt like this guy wasn't right for me. The breakup wasn't bad at all, I try to treat him right and I told him we weren't working out. He was driving me crazy. I did tell him about things he could change (e.g. cheapness) and was careful not to hurt his ego (e.g. penis, low self esteem). We didn't date for very long so I don't feel responsible for him. Anyway, he keeps coming back, wanting to hang out, etc. I usually say no but one day while I was in a decent mood I decided just to catch up with him. He suddenly feels like I wanted to get back together and he feels like I was stringing him along. I WASNT. I never called or texted him, or told him things that might = us getting back together. He kept insisting on just hanging out. I probably should have just said no but I was in a good mood and it' didn't seem like a big deal. Now, I feel like I should just be a total bitch and tell him off. What should I do? While I don't want to hurt his feelings, I also don't want him to think we can still get back together. The main deal breakers is that he's really emotionally draining and sort of bad sex.
WoMann Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 (edited) Give him free sex woman! That is all he wants....not a rocket science yo! You are also a gold digger...being with a guy who has baby d*ck for money Edited March 23, 2012 by WoMann
ditzchic Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Cut him off completely. It seems like the mean thing to do right now but in the long run it's the nicest thing you can do. You can't be friends with an ex immediately after a breakup. It just doesn't work. Only time, space and moving on completely from each other will allow you to be friends again sometime in the future (I'm talking a year or more down the road, not weeks.) He's grasping at any kind of straw he can find that he might be able to fix what happened. You're not trying to lead him on but essentially, you are feeding into his fantasy. Just walk away and don't look back.
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