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ditzchic Established Member

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Except I can't get ANY guys. He could potentially get girls on his levels, and is rejecting them because he wants the top-shelf girls.

 

It's two completely different scenarios. I want an equal; he wants better.

 

Thank God I don't know you in real life. Because if I did I would punch some self esteem right into that "ugly" face of yours. :D

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verhrzn Established Member

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Thank God I don't know you in real life. Because if I did I would punch some self esteem right into that "ugly" face of yours. :D

 

... You would punch me for being ugly? Or are you saying you refuse to hang out with ugly people? Sorry, not following your "joke."

LovJoy Member

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Done it. I got turned down every time, and a friend poured water on me.

 

What city do you live in????? I can't believe no one at that BAR took the offer....are you in America or Iran?

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... You would punch me for being ugly? Or are you saying you refuse to hang out with ugly people? Sorry, not following your "joke."

 

He meant not a physician punch...you are not very bright as well....

 

I feel so bad for you...that I would sleep with you if you were in NY.

jobaba Established Member

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No.

 

No one "has the right" to "get" another person. End-stop. People are free to reject you if they wish.

 

I would think that would be kind of obvious, yet it seems to escape some people on LS. Weird.

 

Nobody even has the right to be friends with or occupy the same social space as another person.

 

People decide who they want in their lives period, sometimes rather harshly.

ditzchic Established Member

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... You would punch me for being ugly? Or are you saying you refuse to hang out with ugly people? Sorry, not following your "joke."

 

Hahah. It's just sarcasm. You're not ugly and the fact that you keep insisting you are makes me want to punch you. It's frustrating! That is all.

FitChick Established Member

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nah, you are doing the same thing he is, you whine about guys not wanting you, same thing. The only difference is, his elevator doesnt go all the way to the top floor.

 

That's why I cut QuietGuy13 a lot of slack when he posts. Other (ahem) people should know better.

Imajerk17 Established Member

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I dunno, something seems to be off about QuietGuy's story. If he truly is unable to take care of himself, don't you think his caretakers would mind his internet usage a little more closely?

 

I mean, I don't think they would let him message all these way underage girls for one thing. That's just opening themselves to the possibility to having all the computers in the house seized by the authorities (for soliciting a minor on the internet) on the one hand, or to him getting exploited by really nasty wolf posing as a 15-year-old girl on the other hand.

 

I think he is a troll, and in the case he is not, being on this forum can't be good for him. I vote for him being banned.

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I certainly don't think you have the RIGHT to date a pretty girl, but if you want to you certainly have the right to try. A word of caution though, don't trade personality and chemistry for looks. When I was 18 I dated an absolutely gorgeous South-American girl with little to no personality. It got old, fast.

 

I think it's fair to say that people tend to date other people in their own "league". Perhaps guys can manage to date a girl that is marginally more attractive than them, perhaps.

 

I'd say try to find someone who you're physically attracted to "enough" but then focus on personality and other traits. That "enough" shouldn't be setting the bar super-high, though. My friend once said "a 7 with enthusiasm will beat a boring 10 any day."

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quietGuy13 Established Member

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I certainly don't think you have the RIGHT to date a pretty girl, but if you want to you certainly have the right to try. A word of caution though, don't trade personality and chemistry for looks. When I was 18 I dated an absolutely gorgeous South-American girl with little to no personality. It got old, fast.

 

I think it's fair to say that people tend to date other people in their own "league". Perhaps guys can manage to date a girl that is marginally more attractive than them, perhaps.

 

I'd say try to find someone who you're physically attracted to "enough" but then focus on personality and other traits. That "enough" shouldn't be setting the bar super-high, though. My friend once said "a 7 with enthusiasm will beat a boring 10 any day."

 

I never said i want a super 10. I can go for a 7. but not even 7's like me.

kiss_andmakeup Established Member

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I never said i want a super 10. I can go for a 7. but not even 7's like me.

 

7's want other 7's. Not sure why this is hard to understand.

 

Some average or below average looking men can attract above-average looking women because they have charisma; whether that comes in the form of being charming or funny, being intelligent and educated, being wealthy, or any combination of the above.

 

You have none of those traits. That's why a woman who is "7" isn't going to give you the time of day. Because she is seeking her equal.

 

Why not seek out other mentally/emotionally impaired people? There are support groups and activity meet-ups for those with mental and emotional disabilities. Those women would be more sympathetic to your problems because they'd likely have some of the same problems themselves.

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Chubbi Established Member

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What exactly do you want them for? Do you just want to have sex with them? Relationships take a lot of work. Do you want that? Do you want the bad side of relationships too? Women are chatty and talk all the time about their life. What interests do you want to share with her?

 

Look on the bright side. Be thankful you're a human. In nature, birds/lions/rhinos/monkeys, the male that gets All of the females are the creme of the crop. Basically, all the athletes, models, movie stars would be getting All of the women. Be thankful you're a human or you would've been ousted from the pride a long time ago, and left to die.

somedude81 Established Member

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... You would punch me for being ugly? Or are you saying you refuse to hang out with ugly people? Sorry, not following your "joke."

She'd beat the ugly out of you.

 

Fists of love!

7's want other 7's. Not sure why this is hard to understand.

Eh not really.

 

Women 7's generally prefer 8 men and so on.

 

Most women don't want their equal.

Dust Established Member

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Quietguy if this is a sample of your communication skills I suggest you take your search for love offline. These pretty women you see, do you ever ask them out in person? It sounds like you don't do anything other then maybe msg girls online.

 

Also if you're mentaly handicapped why not go after other mentaly handicapped girls. Some of them are easily 10's but it would be really wrong for some one who wasn't also mentaly handi capped to use them like that. Good luck.

Mr Frisky Member

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Verhzn, I find your posts on this forum as equally idiotic as the OP's. Maybe you two should hookup and make each other miserable. Truly a match made in Hell.

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PlumPrincess Established Member

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nah, you are doing the same thing he is, you whine about guys not wanting you, same thing. The only difference is, his elevator doesnt go all the way to the top floor.

Best euphemism ever. :lmao:

kiss_andmakeup Established Member

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She'd beat the ugly out of you.

 

Fists of love!

 

Eh not really.

 

Women 7's generally prefer 8 men and so on.

 

Most women don't want their equal.

 

Ok, then 7's want 8's. Point to the OP still stands.

 

Why must you make everything a gender issue? OP is a self-proclaimed "1" with severe mental and social problems. The standards of said "7" women are irrelevant beyond the simple fact that they definitely won't be interested in a "1."

jobaba Established Member

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Ok, then 7's want 8's. Point to the OP still stands.

 

Why must you make everything a gender issue? OP is a self-proclaimed "1" with severe mental and social problems. The standards of said "7" women are irrelevant beyond the simple fact that they definitely won't be interested in a "1."

 

So ... what if you're walking around on the street or go to a cafe with a friend, co-worker, or even cousin, and somebody implies that you are a couple or married?

 

Are you automatically both 'sevens'?

kiss_andmakeup Established Member

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So ... what if you're walking around on the street or go to a cafe with a friend, co-worker, or even cousin, and somebody implies that you are a couple or married?

 

Are you automatically both 'sevens'?

 

I don't know. Maybe. But I don't see how that has anything to do with the OP.

jobaba Established Member

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I don't know. Maybe. But I don't see how that has anything to do with the OP.

 

It doesn't. I'm just curious as to what you thought.

 

If they said that about two people, maybe they're both not 7s. or 5s. But in the same ballpark in your opinion?

 

I'm curious because it's happened to me. I have a lot of female friends.

 

I'm big on human psychology.

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Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Hi all.

 

I was just thinking.. I see tons and tons of pretty girls in downtown and tons of tons of pretty girls in yeah(porn). I'm just saying, all these girls are mating/dating someone...so why not me?

 

why don't i have the right?

 

I'm just saying cause many people here have told me that me wanting a 10 or 8 or 7 or whatever, is stupid and that i should just go for personality even if the girl is a 1(lowest number).

 

So yeah, why are the guys who end up with the pretty girls...why do they have the right, and not me?

 

QuietGuy, it's not that you don't "deserve" a pretty girl. It's that you make a woman's entire worth based on her prettiness. This seems to be the only thing you know how to relate to when it comes to women. All you see is the outer shell. All you want is the outershell. How do I know this? All you focus on is the image a woman presents whether it's out on the street or in porn. And this is why you have unrealistic expectations. It's not that average or ugly guys can't or shouldn't be with pretty women. It's that you place such a worth on a woman's looks, thaty ou wouldn't even be a good partner for a pretty woman at this point and time. You also never talk about about what's pretty to you. Which gives me the idea that you probably have a very stereotyped media hyped ideal of beauty that is actually probably quite unrealistic.

 

You really need to start learning about women in terms of who they are as people rather then continue relating to women only through visuals of women on the street or porn.

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PlumPrincess Established Member

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So ... what if you're walking around on the street or go to a cafe with a friend, co-worker, or even cousin, and somebody implies that you are a couple or married?

 

Are you automatically both 'sevens'?

You and your co-worker-problem! :p

jobaba Established Member

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You and your co-worker-problem! :p

 

Lol. If only you knew...

 

*shakes head* :o

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