quietGuy13 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Hi all. I was just thinking.. I see tons and tons of pretty girls in downtown and tons of tons of pretty girls in yeah(porn). I'm just saying, all these girls are mating/dating someone...so why not me? why don't i have the right? I'm just saying cause many people here have told me that me wanting a 10 or 8 or 7 or whatever, is stupid and that i should just go for personality even if the girl is a 1(lowest number). So yeah, why are the guys who end up with the pretty girls...why do they have the right, and not me?
ditzchic Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 So yeah, why are the guys who end up with the pretty girls...why do they have the right, and not me? Like attracts like. They are prettier than you. 2
serial muse Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Well, it's a free market system, basically. So, certainly you have the right to try. Try all you want, who knows what will happen? People have commented on your expectations, not on your rights.
Author quietGuy13 Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 Like attracts like. They are prettier than you. Yeah i know. That's why in COllege. All the girls have those hot guy boyfriends. And people keep claiming the pretty girls go out with below average guys. never seen it. It's pretty rare. 1
FitChick Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Because the women have a say in who they date. They are not fruit on a tree to be plucked. 4
oaks Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 why don't i have the right? You're trolling, right? You think dating a pretty girl is a right? Best check the constitution, but I don't recall that being added even in some of the higher-numbered amendments. There's no right to date someone attractive. Carpe diem or, perhaps, who dares wins. 1
hotloader Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Because the women have a say in who they date. They are not fruit on a tree to be plucked. Neither are men, but most of you seem to think it's that way. 1
WoMann Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 What he means, is that like women, he feels entitled to it...like every women feels entitled to a playboy millionaire.... 1
EasyHeart Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 You have a right to pursue happiness. You don't have the right to catch it. 6
WoMann Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 You have a right to pursue happiness. You don't have the right to catch it. This should be printed on an arm of an every women in America. 2
jobaba Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 (edited) Like attracts like. They are prettier than you. As a generality this is true. But not as a rule. This is why. I was rejected by a coworker last year, and after some facebook stalking and other investigation it's pretty much confirmed that she would no way in h@ll even consider the remote possibility of dating somebody that looks like me. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't even have me in her social circle. Long story, won't get into details, but yea ... I misread that one, badly. I have a current girlfriend who thinks I'm attractive. She's said it and I believe her. I think she's cute and can look hot at times. One day, for reasons I won't get into, I conducted an online poll with photos of my girlfriend and the coworker. (Yea, I know, it's creepy but so what, I'm proving a point here). The results were they were equal or my girlfriend was more attractive. So where did logic go wrong here? I'd also like to add that random people thought my coworker and I were married or a couple, so not everybody thought she was out of my league. She did though. Leagues are to a large part social construct and to another degree how hot you think you are. You play if you want to. Edited March 23, 2012 by jobaba
verhrzn Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 As a generality this is true. But not as a rule. This is why. I was rejected by a coworker last year, and after some facebook stalking and other investigation it's pretty much confirmed that she would no way in h@ll even consider the remote possibility of dating somebody that looks like me. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't even have me in her social circle. Long story, won't get into details, but yea ... I misread that one, badly. I have a current girlfriend who thinks I'm attractive. She's said it and I believe her. I think she's cute and can look hot at times. One day, for reasons I won't get into, I conducted an online poll with photos of my girlfriend and the coworker. (Yea, I know, it's creepy but so what, I'm proving a point here). The results were they were equal or my girlfriend was more attractive. So where did logic go wrong here? I'd also like to add that random people thought my coworker and I were married or a couple, so not everybody thought she was out of my league. She did though. Leagues are to a large part social construct and to another degree how hot you think you are. You play if you want to. Are you honestly encouraging this guy's behavior? He needs therapy-badly.... not more incentive to whine here about how all the hot girls ignore him when he's ugly, unemployed, and socially awkward.
LovJoy Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Are you honestly encouraging this guy's behavior? He needs therapy-badly.... not more incentive to whine here about how all the hot girls ignore him when he's ugly, unemployed, and socially awkward. Fair deal...if you will stop b8tching about being ugly, FAT, and socially awkward hun.
Eddie Edirol Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Fair deal...if you will stop b8tching about being ugly, FAT, and socially awkward hun. oooh... ouch, that stung a lil...
ditzchic Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 As a generality this is true. But not as a rule. This is why. I was rejected by a coworker last year, and after some facebook stalking and other investigation it's pretty much confirmed that she would no way in h@ll even consider the remote possibility of dating somebody that looks like me. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't even have me in her social circle. Long story, won't get into details, but yea ... I misread that one, badly. I have a current girlfriend who thinks I'm attractive. She's said it and I believe her. I think she's cute and can look hot at times. One day, for reasons I won't get into, I conducted an online poll with photos of my girlfriend and the coworker. (Yea, I know, it's creepy but so what, I'm proving a point here). The results were they were equal or my girlfriend was more attractive. So where did logic go wrong here? I'd also like to add that random people thought my coworker and I were married or a couple, so not everybody thought she was out of my league. She did though. Leagues are to a large part social construct and to another degree how hot you think you are. You play if you want to. No sh*t, Sherlock. "Pretty" is subjective. I didn't think I had to touch on that point...
jobaba Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 No sh*t, Sherlock. "Pretty" is subjective. I didn't think I had to touch on that point... For some reason, I don't think you and I would get along in real life.
verhrzn Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Fair deal...if you will stop b8tching about being ugly, FAT, and socially awkward hun. I may bitch about being ugly, fat, and socially awkward, but at least I'm not whining about how the super hot, handsome, and rich guys don't want me. The hypocritical nature of the OP is what disgusts me. 3
LovJoy Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I may bitch about being ugly, fat, and socially awkward, but at least I'm not whining about how the super hot, handsome, and rich guys don't want me. The hypocritical nature of the OP is what disgusts me. Your FAT, b8tchy, pathetic ( can't even get a geek ) nature is what disgusts me. 2
zengirl Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 No. No one "has the right" to "get" another person. End-stop. People are free to reject you if they wish. I would think that would be kind of obvious, yet it seems to escape some people on LS. Weird. 1
Eddie Edirol Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I may bitch about being ugly, fat, and socially awkward, but at least I'm not whining about how the super hot, handsome, and rich guys don't want me. The hypocritical nature of the OP is what disgusts me. nah, you are doing the same thing he is, you whine about guys not wanting you, same thing. The only difference is, his elevator doesnt go all the way to the top floor. 2
LovJoy Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 it is funny how a hypocrite is disgusted by the hypocrisy.....
verhrzn Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 nah, you are doing the same thing he is, you whine about guys not wanting you, same thing. The only difference is, his elevator doesnt go all the way to the top floor. Except I can't get ANY guys. He could potentially get girls on his levels, and is rejecting them because he wants the top-shelf girls. It's two completely different scenarios. I want an equal; he wants better.
LovJoy Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Except I can't get ANY guys. He could potentially get girls on his levels, and is rejecting them because he wants the top-shelf girls. It's two completely different scenarios. I want an equal; he wants better. Go to any BAR and say you are horny. You will get bunch of guys 1
verhrzn Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Go to any BAR and say you are horny. You will get bunch of guys Done it. I got turned down every time, and a friend poured water on me.
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