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Do women in reality love to be used and played?

somedude81 Established Member

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What gave you the idea that women hate players?

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Because on these forums they always b8tch about players and how they should stay away from them. Wondering if guy they meet is one...bluh bluh bluh

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Do women in reality love to be used and played?

 

Women can't help it LOL. Women's words don't match their actions. Everybody but the most naive know this.

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In that case, as of today I will become a player ( since i am cute and charismatic ) and start using girls for sex with zero remorse, since that is what they really want.

 

Makes my life much easier.

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From what I've seen, women love players but eventually learn that, that type of guy isn't good for her. Some women never figure it out.

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Women deep down are insecure miserable creatures that have no respect for them selves and who know they are deep down just sluts. By knowing this truth, one must never feel bad using women for sex. Like they have non, using guys for money.

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Women are women....what can you do?

 

most women, like men all compete for the creme de la creme. All people want to go out with the most beautiful charismatic ones, but only few will get them.

So women will label him a 'player' cuz he didn't wanna settle with HER (it comforts her ego see?). What usually happens is she'll sleep with him within a date or two,THEN realize he's playing the field- THEN label him 'bad' cuz she expected him to devote to only her. Tho' chances are he NEVER said 'you're the ONE' or 'I love YOU' in order to get in her pants...

 

So the majority of women (and men) eventually have to get realistic and match up with their 'equal' eventually - this ensures fidelity from her spouse.

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So women are driven by selfish ego....interesting....

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Well a player or a pimp doesnt come in and say, "Hey I'm a player".. I think the women dont realize til it's too late. They fall for the man's swag etc. By the time the woman realized she's been had, shes already emotionally invested. By that time, it's too late.

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Men have all the power over weak, selfish, ego driven women....

kaylan Established Member

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If sluts are so hated by men...how come they get to have sex with bunch of them?

 

Do men in reality love whores who sleep around?

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Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Do women in reality love to be used and played?

 

No. Women, like men, since women are people (a few of you might want to remind yourselves of that), get blinded by what the "player" shines infront of their eyes. Just like a man can be blinded by the exterior beauty of a woman while not knowing anything about who she really is. The "player" shines a myth about himself that lures women who are into that type of guy. The "player" on the outside is charasmatic, charming, fun, playful, and he always makes it seem like he is really into whatever particular woman he is currently charming. These are all qualities we all get tricked into. Which is why we end up with so many corrupt politicians. Pretty women do the same thing to men, blinding them to what may really be underneath.

 

So this isn't a case of women being different from men. This is a case of women and men being very very similiar as far as being blinded by certain seemingly positive characteristics.

 

As for men that still use the words "whores and sluts" to refer to women just because *you* don't like another woman's sexual practices...seriously, grow up already. No one is saying you have to agree or like a woman's sexual choices. But you don't get to name call just because it makes you feel better about yourself.

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Most players are above average men & the women who go for them usually know their a player.

They just think their the one whose going to sex him into a relationship.

ThatDudeXO Established Member

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It's pretty self explanatory. Players play with womens emotion but some women don't realise it until it's too late.

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Most players are above average men & the women who go for them usually know their a player.

They just think their the one whose going to sex him into a relationship.

Lol! In their mind its like " I know he is a player but I can change him". The reality is so far from that idealization.

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Lol! In their mind its like " I know he is a player but I can change him". The reality is so far from that idealization.

And women have carried that idealization for thousands of years.

 

That's how it worked for all the great seducers. The women knew what the guy was, but foolishly thought they can tame him.

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I don't think you guys realize how hard it is to tell if a guy is a player. In my experience men who choose to be players don't want to make it extremely obvious that they are players. And by the time we figure it out? We may already be too far into our feelings for the guy to just let it go and not try to make it work. Not try to "change him". Some of us are good girls. And we get played.. get hurt. Don't like it. Don't want it to happen again. Then the next time we're with a guy.. we think hmm this guy is probably a player. Learned skepticism and fear of being hurt.. And the guys who aren't players get screwed over by it. So hate the player, not the played.

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If sluts are so hated by men...how come they get to have sex with bunch of them?

 

Do men in reality love whores who sleep around?

 

False analogy. I don't think the "average" guy experiences nearly the amount of attention from so-called sluts than what "average" women do from the so-called players. Sure, if you are a guy that is good at attracting women in general, then you have a choice whether to be a player or not -- also, you will probably have the looks and charisma that would be most attractive to women interested in no-strings sex. The rest of us are out of luck -- we either get in a relationship or have no sex/intimacy at all. Judging from the seemingly universal concern women have about getting played, my sense is that women across the beauty spectrum deal with the so-called players.

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The most likely reason players get to have sex with a bunch of women is in the name.

 

The term player would be a clue in that the most common reason that they get a lot of sex is through manipulation and deceit.

 

The other reason being that a lot of players are tall, rich, and/or handsome things that women generally find attractive. You can hate someone and be attracted to them and want ot or do have sex with them.

 

Do women in reality love to be used and played?

Some do.

 

Plenty of low self esteem women who enjoy abusing themselves by finding others to abuse them.

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They hate them for the same reason some men hate the female version. It's because they don't have what it takes to tame one of them. It takes a special kind of person to make a person turn in their player card and they just are not that person so instead of adjusting who they date they get mad at the players.

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Whores give it up unless like most women. And the women that sleep with players are almost always in love them and worship them as a deity. Men know whores are whores. WE don't fall in love with them cause they are "bad".

You obviously dont read the forums here enough. Plenty of guys fall in love with skanks and bad women. And they will make excuses for her behavior when things go south desperately trying to fix things.

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They hate them for the same reason some men hate the female version. It's because they don't have what it takes to tame one of them. It takes a special kind of person to make a person turn in their player card and they just are not that person so instead of adjusting who they date they get mad at the players.

 

or because players can't tell the truth to save their lives and will make up any lie just to get their lay. Some women/men can't tell the truth from BS and/or will jump the gun too quickly and sleep with them right away thinking that the guy/girl is interested.

 

Anyone who manipulates someones feelings like that is an asshat and their quality as a human ranks down there with neanderthals and sosuave D-bags.

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or because players can't tell the truth to save their lives and will make up any lie just to get their lay. Some women/men can't tell the truth from BS and/or will jump the gun too quickly and sleep with them right away thinking that the guy/girl is interested.

 

Anyone who manipulates someones feelings like that is an asshat and their quality as a human ranks down there with neanderthals and sosuave D-bags.

 

I agree but people who know somebody is a player but just keeps going back for more usually is just mad they can't tame them. It goes for both genders as well. I wasn't mad at my one FWB for playing guys left and right because they knew damn well what she was about. If you keep touching a hot stove that is your own stupid fault.

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