poolwise Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 So we were in a relationship for 3 months and saw each other often. Then she said she wanted to break up as she wanted to focus on herself. She had ailing parents, and was going to go back to school. She said she hasn't had time to focus on herself in so long b/c she was taking care of parents, working a lot, and dealing with her own health issues. But she wanted to stay in touch and didn't want to date anyone else. 2 months later she gets a promotion instead of go back to school. We talk everyday. She knows I care for her. I ask her out on a date. She says yes, and eventually she comes over my place to watch our favorite show. Her body language was off, I gave her a kiss here and there, but she didnt want to cuddle or anything. I asked, whats up with us ? She said I have no opinion yet. I said "I asked you out on a date, are we not dating. She said, its been 2 months and we're not in the infatuation stage anymore. Things happened between us" Later on in the date, we laughed and the tension went away and we were back to our old selves. She said we should plan another 'meet'. I'm just confused here ! What is going on in her head ? Did I mess this up months ago and now she's having second thoughts ? Help !
Chi townD Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 You only dated 3 months. Chances are she's more interested in a friendship than a relationship. Sometimes, the sparks aren't there. Hard to say what the change of heart is.
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