Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I am 32 and was dating a 48 year old...she sucked in bed! Vanila missionary sex, did not even wanted go on top...no oral...she did likes cuddling after and watching a movie..... Then I had to show interest by calling every day and stay keen...for what?...sucky lazy sex?...she was divorced with a kid, who lived with daddy... She also said she was a bit "off"...well no duh like all women and specially older ones. Too much work with all the baggage, i travel light...no major insecurities and trust issues please!
Black Jack Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I am 32 and was dating a 48 year old...she sucked in bed! Vanila missionary sex, did not even wanted go on top...no oral...she did likes cuddling after and watching a movie..... Then I had to show interest by calling every day and stay keen...for what?...sucky lazy sex?...she was divorced with a kid, who lived with daddy... She also said she was a bit "off"...well no duh like all women and specially older ones. Too much work with all the baggage, i travel light...no major insecurities and trust issues please! Wow if she sucks that bad then just break it off. I hope you aren't this mean to her IRL. She's an old woman with some baggage. It's understandable that she's not going to be lively like 24 yr old. I think you should try and see from her perspective a little bit.
Author Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 I am nice in real life..I think she was being shy the first time and insecure about her body...did not even took the top off....I did distanced my self after....she does like me...but wants me to be keen....and I don't feel it....no motivation... We did not used a condom and i did not pulled out...that is the only jerk thing i did....we did had sex next morning after the incident, so she was not too pissed i guess. She said she was a "bad girl" so i never wanted to invest feelings, knowing how they can be, even at 48
Black Jack Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I am nice in real life..I think she was being shy the first time and insecure about her body...did not even took the top off....I did distanced my self after....she does like me...but wants me to be keen....and I don't feel it....no motivation... We did not used a condom and i did not pulled out...that is the only jerk thing i did....we did had sex next morning after the incident, so she was not too pissed i guess. She said she was a "bad girl" so i never wanted to invest feelings, knowing how they can be, even at 48 So she's a "bad girl" who's insecure about her body? That's interesting.
Author Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 In that case..maybe she was not feeling it and was not in to it...that is why sex sucked...I don't feel so bad now...pulling away... Women are all insecure...maybe at 48 more so...since she will have more saggy boobs and skin here and there...
stillafool Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Well if I were you I would go back to dating young women. I'm sure you will get the sex the way you want it with them.
Author Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 Good point....i don't know what i was thinking, going for a 48 year old bar fly with baggage...i guess I was horny....good teaching experience for the future...
bac Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I am nice in real life..I think she was being shy the first time and insecure about her body...did not even took the top off....I did distanced my self after....she does like me...but wants me to be keen....and I don't feel it....no motivation... We did not used a condom and i did not pulled out...that is the only jerk thing i did....we did had sex next morning after the incident, so she was not too pissed i guess. She said she was a "bad girl" so i never wanted to invest feelings, knowing how they can be, even at 48 I think she might be so indifferent because she thought that you were not a turn on sexually. Are you sure that your body is sexy and your face is good-looking enough? It is all about sex for an older woman, that is why your appearance does matter. I think that she had sex with you because she has low self-esteem (she said that she was bad, did not show her body and did not insist on using a condom). Women with low self-esteem do not believe that they are good enough to find a man who they like. Therefore, they have sex with men who they are not attracted to at all.
Author Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 (edited) Yea, you maybe right. i am not bad looking, but was not her type for sure. Thanks for giving this perspective that made lots of sense. I don't have low self esteem and just was playing along. As a new born player, it is easy prey to go for low self esteem women or girls. it is funny, that women will have sex with guys they don't fine attractive. Edited March 23, 2012 by Hear
Author Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 Do you really think you're fooling anybody? I don't know what you are talking about dude.
TaraMaiden Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 this is just another troll post. No self-respecting gentleman - who's 'nicer in IRL' would be this rude. Nothing more to see here, he's just baiting and being purposely insulting.... 2
Author Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 What the heck, where is me being rude and to whom? Why YOU trolling woman? This is my true story.
somedude81 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I don't know what you are talking about dude. Oh my mistake, you're not the forums 'epic' troll that has over a thousand accounts because he's a lonely virgin and the only thing he can do to get his rocks off is troll a relationship forum.
Author Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 What has one to do with another? Are you saying EPIC trolls have no sex life and all virgins? really? I am 32 and not a virgin....tall cute Russian player...I have questions too you know...and I was helped here by good people. I guess all actors who are killers in the movies...are all so in real life....
TaraMaiden Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 RUSKY!!!! You're back! My, how i've missed you, my little Borscht -bowl! how's your nasty little rash? 1
somedude81 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Looks like you have to use another account, that one was outed. BTW, if you were actually a player, why are you so angry?
Author Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 Don't worry, I have many more accounts...also...how do you know that I am angry or ever was?...you believe everything you read?....naive are we?..must come with age...just ask TerrorMaiden...
WoMann Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Hear, don't worry. Just because some woman with low self esteem slept with you and you not being her type, it does not make you a bad looking guy. She was just messed up in the head. You will find a girl one day who will like you the way you are.
TaraMaiden Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 comes to something when you need your imaginary friend/alter-ego to come in and back you up!! that's just classic!!! 2
WoMann Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I don't know why there are so many mean meanies here on the forum, who are not helping at all.
TaraMaiden Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 well if you were banned it would reduce it by 1/25/whatever.....
WoMann Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I know hear in real life. he is a kind, good Man. He is not some ugly troll.
FitChick Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Oh my mistake, you're not the forums 'epic' troll that has over a thousand accounts because he's a lonely virgin and the only thing he can do to get his rocks off is troll a relationship forum. He gave the game away when he was said he was 32 dating a 48 year old. Seems to me he posted that information under another name. Gotcha! 1
TaraMaiden Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I know hear in real life. he is a kind, good Man. He is not some ugly troll. you dunderhead.... it doesn't count when you're TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF!! idiot....
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