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Do you read a lot stories how she got him back? I love to read short stories about how someone got a lot of experience trough break up and than get him back. I know many successful stories! Let me know If you like it, many thanks.

 

Cheers Wibe.

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Spammer.

 

all threads merely advertise "Get him/her back!" techniques.

Badly, i might add.

 

Don't post. Not worth it, just freeloading advertising.

even though they forgot to add the link to their website.....:rolleyes:

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You're posting a lot about this. After my breakup I read them all and surfed the web for weeks for stories and advise (how I found LS actually). That's all I wanted to hear...

 

But it's crap. It gives you false hope.

 

I think people DO get back with exes (mine went back to his, I got back with one years ago...) but it happens because that person for whatever reason, decides that they want you back. Applying a strategy to offensively get them back is wasted time. I've had the opportunity to hook back up with almost every one of my exes only because I was not trying...they were not even on my radar. Which tells me my recent one will probably not come around for a long long long while. It's true every situation is different but I think it only happens when/because both people feel/want the same thing at the same time.

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...why would I want someone back who dumped me?

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Spammer.

 

all threads merely advertise "Get him/her back!" techniques.

Badly, i might add.

 

Don't post. Not worth it, just freeloading advertising.

even though they forgot to add the link to their website.....:rolleyes:

 

Explain me what is and what is not spamming I would appreciate it. Plese here: Am I SPAMMER?

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...why would I want someone back who dumped me?

 

What about if you had a beautiful relationship and there is something third. I bet you that you will participate just here! But than you for reply BTW.

 

Cheers Wibe.

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You're posting a lot about this. After my breakup I read them all and surfed the web for weeks for stories and advise (how I found LS actually). That's all I wanted to hear...

 

But it's crap. It gives you false hope.

 

I think people DO get back with exes (mine went back to his, I got back with one years ago...) but it happens because that person for whatever reason, decides that they want you back. Applying a strategy to offensively get them back is wasted time. I've had the opportunity to hook back up with almost every one of my exes only because I was not trying...they were not even on my radar. Which tells me my recent one will probably not come around for a long long long while. It's true every situation is different but I think it only happens when/because both people feel/want the same thing at the same time.

 

There is a lot of people who want him back and miss him so much. Yes, it is true that we need both of them to want them get back together.

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...why would I want someone back who dumped me?

 

Numerous reasons. Did you earn it? Did you two have a great relationship, but one or both of you hit a rough patch in life? Was one ready to settle down but not the other, then as time moves forward you finally both find yourself in the same place? Did both have issues that you went on to focus on, improve, and in a position to come back stronger?

 

Who dumped who isn't of any relevance. Why it all went down is. That, and are you adult enough to live, learn, and move forward.

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Read your How I Got Him Back stories, along side How Do I Become A Better Person stories. My ex and I both got plenty wrong. If I choose to be an adult about what happened, I'll focus on what I got wrong, and how to improve on it, which is what I did. Now the rest is up to her.

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