Necris Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Exactly as it says just wondering what type of people is Love Shack attracted to? Open for both girls and guys. I'm a guy so naturally I'm attracted to exclusively just women who are in my age group (late teens and twenties). Now with that said I'm pretty easy going when it comes to physical qualities on the so-called "attraction scale" a 5 and above are attractive enough for me. I don't get how people think plain and average somehow equals ugliness but that's just me. Some level of cleanliness (she should take care of herself atleast), no real physical problems, symmetrical face are all attractive. Obesity and severe anorexia are major turn offs for me a woman of a healthy weight is much more attractive (being very skinny can be sexy and being a little overweight can be sexy as well it mostly matters how she handles it) . I also find women who look very feminine more attractive than more masculine looking women. Hair is not important but I find long hair more attractive than short hair. As for personality I prefer a nice girl who is respectful, caring and kind. Also it helps that we have some things in common like an interest in computers, videogames, anime, biology, astronomy, cars, hiking, just something that we both can enjoy. Its not very important but it helps alot to know that we have some common ground in something makes conversations alot easier. Intelligence is pretty important and at least some level of independence and responsibility is very good as well. Preferably it would be nice if she were also a Christian like myself and preferably a virgin like myself or at least someone with very little sexual experience, and definitely not the kind of person who likes having random hookups with a bunch of guys.
paloma22 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Exactly as it says just wondering what type of people is Love Shack attracted to? Open for both girls and guys. I'm a guy so naturally I'm attracted to exclusively just women who are in my age group (late teens and twenties). Now with that said I'm pretty easy going when it comes to physical qualities on the so-called "attraction scale" a 5 and above are attractive enough for me. I don't get how people think plain and average somehow equals ugliness but that's just me. Some level of cleanliness (she should take care of herself atleast), no real physical problems, symmetrical face are all attractive. Obesity and severe anorexia are major turn offs for me a woman of a healthy weight is much more attractive (being very skinny can be sexy and being a little overweight can be sexy as well it mostly matters how she handles it) . I also find women who look very feminine more attractive than more masculine looking women. Hair is not important but I find long hair more attractive than short hair. As for personality I prefer a nice girl who is respectful, caring and kind. Also it helps that we have some things in common like an interest in computers, videogames, anime, biology, astronomy, cars, hiking, just something that we both can enjoy. Its not very important but it helps alot to know that we have some common ground in something makes conversations alot easier. Intelligence is pretty important and at least some level of independence and responsibility is very good as well. Preferably it would be nice if she were also a Christian like myself and preferably a virgin like myself or at least someone with very little sexual experience, and definitely not the kind of person who likes having random hookups with a bunch of guys. how do you define 'feminine versus masculine looking women'? is this by hair colour? body type? how big their noses are ? is a fair haired woman more 'feminine' than a dark featured woman? I'm just curious.
jobaba Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Rationally ... my brain goes for Asian women who are well educated and are laidback and bohemian. Emotionally, my heart goes for different types of women under the sun, of all races. Of the handful of women that I have fallen for majorly, all have been of different races, backgrounds and personality. I have found that somebody who has good character and respects you and treats you well while at the same time desiring YOU is harder to find than somebody who might be into the same activities as you, or the same race, or the same income bracket. I have also found that women that are similar to me in background and race are often not interested. In other words, my criteria needs to continuously be adjusted.
Feelin Frisky Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Because I'm on the high end of the LS age spectrum, someone over forty is probably most approriate. To you youngsters over forty probably sounds like halfway to hell but I recently discovered how entirely youthful a 40+ woman's body can be. And, I wants me some mo. But seriously folks, it's not about looks as much as it is values and character. Other than my usual deal-breakers like "must not be a Republican" there are things like "the contentiousness factor"--does she take things that could go either way negatively and let the feelings of that faulty perception drive her immediate actions to trash the long term good vibe of the relationship over some point of order she potentially read wrong? That is something I will not have no matter how gorgeous a woman is. Done. I will not be a doormat. Another thing is how yielding in dialog is she? I don't ask for someone to yes me on everything and can work with some issues but someone who babbles some crap to make them self appear intellectual is a turn off. When they say, claim some access to spirituality but then seems to have no line between what is of nature and and what is believed to be super-natural, I think, why would you pick something to say your an expert on when you can't instantly discern which is something awesome natural or in the realm of this convoluted mish mosh people carry on through generations called super-nature. GIVE NATURE ITS DUE before attributing divinity--fer chrissakes. 1
jobaba Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Because I'm on the high end of the LS age spectrum, someone over forty is probably most approriate. To you youngsters over forty probably sounds like halfway to hell but I recently discovered how entirely youthful a 40+ woman's body can be. And, I wants me some mo. But seriously folks, it's not about looks as much as it is values and character. Whoa, there's a wise elder statement. 40+ is hot. I'd probably go as high as mid to late 40s. I guess it's only fair to go as far high up as you go down low.
mesmerized Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Guys +- 5 years of my age who are fairly attractive. This is probably my biggest issue because a lot of attractive guys don't have good personalities. Can't help what I want though, I'm just very visual and enjoy male's figure.
aj22one Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I'm a bit picky. But I've found someone. We'll just leave it at that. haha 2
kiss_andmakeup Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 My physical criteria has adjusted enormously with each man I've had a relationship with. Thus, it's hard for me to say I really have a physical "type." My ex was average height (5'10), stocky to heavy build, blonde hair. I was very attracted to him, and at the time I considered that my "type." My current boyfriend is tall (6'4), lean but athletic, and has brown hair. I'm very attracted to him, and I consider that my "type" now. I've dated guys all in between too. There was a very dark-haired dark-eyed olive-skinned lad who was only 5'8" but totally gorgeous......also a tall, lanky, blonde-haired blue-eyed guy who bordered on skinny. I found all these men attractive. I think that as long as someone fits my basic parameters of attractiveness (not obese and at least somewhat fit, symmetrical facial features, well-groomed), if we're compatible emotionally and socially, I'll be physically attracted to them, too.
FrustratedStandards Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Physically: tall, rugged, late 20's early 30's, lean build Personality: smart, well-spoken, intellectual, wise, not shy Otherwise: good in bed, makes a good living, no kids
Author Necris Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 how do you define 'feminine versus masculine looking women'? is this by hair colour? body type? how big their noses are ? is a fair haired woman more 'feminine' than a dark featured woman? I'm just curious. Its a body type, facial feature kind of thing. When it comes to body type I like a woman with a waist smaller than her hips, not alot of body hair or alot of muscle (toned is good but when it starts getting crazy the attraction goes down). As for facial features it really depends on the woman but generally a face with softer more rounded features is more attractive to me than a more angular face. All of this however isn't very important and the attraction is mainly subconscious.
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I'm attracted generally to older guys (like 24+) because they're more mature, more experienced, know what they want.. and I like the way that they look really. I tend to like a bigger, stockier guy who takes care of himself even if he isn't in the best shape. Like someone who cares about himself and his eating and exercise habits. But NOT a muscle head (huge turn off). Health is important to me because I used to be 150 pounds overweight. Not because I'm shallow, I just honestly can't be with someone who is completely unhealthy. Kind eyes. The eye crinkles... biggest turn on there is for me (those little laugh lines on the eyes... get me EVERY time). I do prefer for the guy to be taller than me. As long as he has healthy teeth, I don't care if his smile is straight. I want him to have a kind smile, that he uses often, that's the biggest thing for me. As for personality I like a guy who can be sarcastic. Funny in his own way. Honest. Not afraid of making decisions and being in control, because I am the worst decision maker ever, although I have opinions on everything there is. Someone who respects me, likes kids, **loves my dog** (it is an absolute turn off when a guy pushes my dog away or doesn't give her a belly rub, I realize this is incredibly weird of me to admit.), loves dogs in general, isn't obsessed with his looks, is intelligent. Is kind to others. Is giving. Appreciates how giving I am but doesn't take advantage of it. Isn't arrogant. I hate arrogance. I want him to be happy to be with me, happy to take me out, happy to spend time with me. Someone who doesn't worry about small things, keeps me level and makes me happy Oh and in addition to liking my dog he should probably like my friends and family too, haha! That's essential. 1
Black Jack Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I'm a bit picky. But I've found someone. We'll just leave it at that. haha Yes I'm picky too. It's too long of a list to name but I'll go with the basics: Has short hair, voluptuous ass, thighs, and hips, must have beautiful feet and no bad breath. And she must be at least 30 yrs of age. I don't like immature women.
somedude81 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Thanks to advice from this forum and much effort on my part. I am now attracted to women like this one. It won't be long till I announce that I am in a relationship with a lucky lady.
Author Necris Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 Oh yeah almost forgot to mention, sanity is also very important. I can probably tolerate a little bit of crazy if she is otherwise a good person but...yeah insanity isn't worth it, I myself got my own problems adding more craziness isn't going to help.
hotloader Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I'm attracted to something that doesn't exist: A man's mind in a hot woman's body. In my adult life, the revulsion that I've grown to have for women and their actions is indescribable. It's now beginning to eclipse their physical beauty in my eyes, which isn't a good thing. I'm single now, and plan on remaining that way until someone of quality enters my life. The only way I'd ever date again is if I met a girl who I was physically attracted to and whom I connected deeply with on an intellectual level. That will probably never happen though. After all the $hit I've been through, beating off into a tube sock is a viable and responsible alternative for releasing my sexual urges. I can't even jerk off to "real" women anymore like I used to though. You know, chicks I meet casually who I find hot. I'll start trying to rub one out, and the thought of how much of a bitch she probably is pops into my mind. How f'd up is that? 1
Author Necris Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 I'm attracted to something that doesn't exist: A man's mind in a hot woman's body. In my adult life, the revulsion that I've grown to have for women and their actions is indescribable. It's now beginning to eclipse their physical beauty in my eyes, which isn't a good thing. I'm single now, and plan on remaining that way until someone of quality enters my life. The only way I'd ever date again is if I met a girl who I was physically attracted to and whom I connected deeply with on an intellectual level. That will probably never happen though. After all the $hit I've been through, beating off into a tube sock is a viable and responsible alternative for releasing my sexual urges. I can't even jerk off to "real" women anymore like I used to though. You know, chicks I meet casually who I find hot. I'll start trying to rub one out, and the thought of how much of a bitch she probably is pops into my mind. How f'd up is that? If a girl met all your personality requirements and looked like this would you want a relationship? (I personally find these girls kinda attractive myself but that may just be me) If your physical standards aren't too high and with the billions of women on the planet you maybe able to find your ideal woman also it will probably help to change where you meet this women at the women at a church maybe a bit better than the ones at the club for instance, but then again who am I kidding I can't give advice I've never had a girlfriend in my life and physical contact of any sort besides the occassional handshake is non-existant.
hotloader Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 If a girl met all your personality requirements and looked like this would you want a relationship? (I personally find these girls kinda attractive myself but that may just be me) No. My ideal woman looks like Janeane Garofalo circa 1997ish. Black hair, short, between 120-140 pounds, pale complected, un-toned yet not fat. Dressing like somewhat of a slob (sweat pants and flip flops are a big turn on), hair kinda ratty etc, is also a plus. Yeah, I know. It sounds f'd up, but that's just how my brain works. I HATE makeup, high heels, short dresses, and all the other stereotypical things that the masses of men find appealing.
Author Necris Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 (edited) No. My ideal woman looks like Janeane Garofalo circa 1997ish. Black hair, short, between 120-140 pounds, pale complected, un-toned yet not fat. Dressing like somewhat of a slob (sweat pants and flip flops are a big turn on), hair kinda ratty etc, is also a plus. Yeah, I know. It sounds f'd up, but that's just how my brain works. I HATE makeup, high heels, short dresses, and all the other stereotypical things that the masses of men find appealing. I knew the women I showed weren't going to be ideal but I was wondering if you met a girl with the perfect personality but her looks were a little lacking would you pursue a relationship? Anyway someone looking like Janeane Garofalo in 1997 that prefers to dress down and comfortable rather than for attention shouldn't be too hard to find. As for hating makeup, high heels, and short dresses I feel you man. Personally I don't find women wearing alot of makeup particularly attractive a natural look is better and I really hate perfume those artificial scents can be annoying and at times even feel like its burning my nose, high heels and short skirts aim to create attention for the woman wearing them but they look kind of slutty to me but oh well. Also can you describe in more detail what kind of personality characteristcs are you looking for in a woman. Edited March 23, 2012 by Necris
hotloader Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Also can you describe in more detail what kind of personality characteristcs are you looking for in a woman. What is this dude, f***in' 20 questions? Go read a book or something.
Desensitized Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Unfortunately, not going to lie here, but I tend to be attracted to a beautiful face, beautiful smile, beautiful hair, beautiful eyes, basically the whole package. I'm a high heels man, and I love a girl that is classy, but not a prude. Personality wise, I tend to be attracted to the troubled type of woman. These would include people with, but not limited to: girls with personality disorders, daddy issues, the unfaithful, and cheats. However, I do not go looking for these type of personalities, it's just something that follows me everywhere I go I guess. Can't complain about the sex though. Crazy girls are frickin' amazing at it.
Author Necris Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 What is this dude, f***in' 20 questions? Go read a book or something. I was just curious what kind of personality are you looking for?
pteromom Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 The most important thing is that he exudes a vibe of HAPPINESS. I am attracted to people (even as friends) who are joyful and exuberant and love life. I can overlook a lot of physical "flaws" that I wouldn't necessarily be attracted to otherwise if he is happy. My only MUST on the physical side is height. Nothing crazy, just taller than me... I am turned off by smoking, excessive drinking or getting drunk, or drugs.
paloma22 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 yup, if drinking is too much a part of your life, I'm not interested. thats why my ex of 3 years and i broke up. he grew up in a community very fond of social drinking, and wine with dinner drinking, and getting drunk with family drinking. my family always came together over a meal, rather than drinks. i realize this is a social construct that one grows up with, but when alcohol becomes a part of your social culture (not to mention, you drink to get drunk), it becomes a HUGE turnoff.
cutecatch Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 18-22, any race, any hair color, good body, no fatties, medium to long hair, no butch cut hair, feminine and cute face.
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