water4150 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Basically lost the love of my life of 2.5 years and she broke it off. 5-6 months later I'm still struggling and its been 4 weeks of NC. I'm constantly wondering what she doing, who she talking to and what she up to. I did my best to remove all triggers. Ex: I hid all her stuff (we never gave anything back, well I gave only one thing back and that was it) in a draw I never use, I deleted her phone number but I remember it by heart, I deleted her facebook b/c I saw she deleted our pictures she said she would never take down. But there is always that one random trigger that pops up and sets things off I have been improving on myself since the break up. I been working out a lot...so far I'm up 12lbs from using the gym and eating healthier I was 128 at break up now I'm 142lbs I'm 5'' 6'. I do plan on seeing the university counselor tomorrow to better help me through this. I avoided it becuase I thought I'd be able to solve it on my own but it's been nearly 6 months and I'm starting to get fed up with it. Do I still want her back....yea...I do....
robertmathis1026 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Well you are very good because you can use your time after the breakup for positive activities... I think you should meet your ex and communicate with your ex, and remember don't talk too emotionally. Are you SUFFERING THE PAIN, because your ex DUMP you? Can You imagine, if you can make your ex BEGGING TO BACK WITH YOU? click here to make it HAPPEN!!
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