lydream Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Hey, I've been meaning to ask a girl out for a while, and I finally secured a date today (we plan on going to dinner). However, she warned me that she had a thing with another guy, but still agreed to the date. Thoughts? What are the next steps? Casual dinner? Make it a fun date instead?
Author lydream Posted March 22, 2012 Author Posted March 22, 2012 Well I asked if taking her on a date was ok, and she said yes b/c she's not in a true relationship with him (I'm paraphrasing).
xpaperxcutx Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Well I asked if taking her on a date was ok, and she said yes b/c she's not in a true relationship with him (I'm paraphrasing). So she's in a casual relationship with the other guy? It could probably entail sex.
R1TE0N Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 She has a thing with another guy. My guess... she's having sex with him and he hasn't or wont commit to her
Author lydream Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 Ok the one thing I know for sure is there is no sex involved.
musemaj11 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 She wants another guy but she welcomes a free date from you.
R1TE0N Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Why does it have to be a "warning"... she warned you that she had another guy? Go out with her anyhow, but don't go out of your way. She sounds like she may have a preference for him. If you want exclusivity, you need to get to the bottom of it and see what she's going to do about him. I'd probably not take too much time with her and get these questions answered before you plan some elaborate date out.
Hear Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 She wants another guy but she welcomes a free date from you. Girls will go out on Dates with guys they don't like, because they get free food and free entertainment.
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