verhrzn Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 (edited) or you could be an upbeat attractive girl if you set your mind to it Can't polish a turd (couldn't find a less crash way of saying it.) Could be an upbeat ugly girl I suppose... to whom the OP will complain that all the hot girls are taken, and how no good-looking girls pay any attention to him, and the cycle will go round and round. This is what we call a "self fulfilling prophecy". You believe you're ugly, so you give off an ugly personality. No one wants to be involved with that. Right, being ugly doesn't matter at all... which is why guys on this board and in real life are constantly complaining about how all the nice, upbeat girls are taken. Oh no, wait, it's all a focus on looks. Edited March 22, 2012 by verhrzn 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Right, being ugly doesn't matter at all... which is why guys on this board and in real life are constantly complaining about how all the nice, upbeat girls are taken. Oh no, wait, it's all a focus on looks. What would it take for you to believe that you're not ugly? 1
silvermercy Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 To balance things: where are all the upbeat handsome guys? Can't find them anywhere. OP, are you an upbeat handsome guy? 1
stillafool Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Why are you so negative about your looks? Probably because the guys here at LS love to complain that girls are only into tall, goodlooking guys and are shallow. Guys think it is alright that they need and want "pretty girl" over just a "nice girl". 3
ThaWholigan Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 To balance things: where are all the upbeat handsome guys? Can't find them anywhere. OP, are you an upbeat handsome guy? Sorry ladies, I live in London 3
Shaun-Dro Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 You really had to title it "Are all the pretty girls taken?" I mean really I see no problem with your title but in the interest of PC commmunication this world has come to GOSH. Can every one SHUT it about "pretty girls." I think the OP just meant all the girls he's interested in "pretty" are taken. As opposed to implying that all women every where are taken. It also makes sense he would be into women he SUBJECTIVELY finds pretty. He of course wants us to tell him "NO THEY ARN'T ALL TAKEN" this isn't about if you're single you're ugly. ALthough I do believe he is beating himself up. No all the pretty girls arn't taken thats just madness and you feeling sorry for yourself. As for this girl who stands by you on the train stop... It could mean anything. Since she's caught your eye how about manning up and having a polite charming chat and seeing where things go. Try asking her out etc. Good luck stop being so afraid of women. Very cute and calling you pretty puts modestly but for the reasons listed in my response above no not end of thread. Though yes pretty single girls exist as there are fish in the sea. So you take the bus and have a sexy college girl you see every day and want... yet you're to afraid to make a move because if she shot you down every one at the bus stop would be like "wow you see that guy choke." C'mon man if you like the girl ask her out. If you think she's good looking but she seems imature and you'd rather not deal with her then don't. If you want her bad but you're just afraid of being embarressed and awkward at the bus stop for ever more... LAME. It should be her worrying about getting asked out and awkwardness not you. You're a man you can laugh that stuff off and ask her out over and over again... as long as your polite and respectful about it theres no shame.... I wouldn't exist had my Grandfather not worn my Grandmother down by asking her out over and over again. Also my Mother was a lot younger then my father so yet again I wouldn't exist. Single women are every where its not hard to figure out. You could pretty much drive an ice cream truck down the street and play "its raining men" as you go and women and gay guys would come running to see what you were selling. I agree with some of the points you make except the ones referring to the "wearing down" of women. In the old days, it definitely worked. My father and grandfather had done it and it worked. Women appreciated it back in that time. Not so much now with the social media and ridiculous laws to protect her against such actions. This takes away the man's ability to be a man and win her over. If a man tries that sort of tactic with women now he's sure to get slapped with the sexual harassment charge, no matter how polite he is about it, because women don't want to be asked out time and again by the same guy if she already rejected him, unless she comes back and tosses a bone his way.
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