NYC-BigKat Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 It sure seems that way it really does . I'm still trying tho. I asked out at least 10 pretty girls last week & all have bfs. I wanted to talk to others I'd seen but they acted like they didn't want anybody talking to them so I'm not going to do things they dont want right? I saw some more pretty girls get off the train last night but their bfs drove up and they got in the car. I dont know what to do right now but theres this 1 pretty girl thats at the train station w/ me every morning & she wont look at me but she always in my way standing there w/ her great body. When I walk on the train she stood in front of me again. Is she interested? Why is she standing there in front of me but not looking? She's confusing me someone help . 2
verhrzn Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Yep, just us ugly fat girls left. How terrible for you all.
ThaWholigan Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 It sure seems that way it really does . I'm still trying tho. I asked out at least 10 pretty girls last week & all have bfs. I wanted to talk to others I'd seen but they acted like they didn't want anybody talking to them so I'm not going to do things they dont want right? I saw some more pretty girls get off the train last night but their bfs drove up and they got in the car. I dont know what to do right now but theres this 1 pretty girl thats at the train station w/ me every morning & she wont look at me but she always in my way standing there w/ her great body. When I walk on the train she stood in front of me again. Is she interested? Why is she standing there in front of me but not looking? She's confusing me someone help . Don't sweat it. Pretty girls are everywhere. There are lots and lots of them. Just keep trying.
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Yep, just us ugly fat girls left. How terrible for you all. Why are you so negative about your looks?
sid3 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Maybe she's worried you're going to push her front of the train.Hard to say. Why a girl is standing in a specific location is probably one the hardest signs to decipher. Say hello, you'll get your answer.
verhrzn Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Why are you so negative about your looks? Because of threads like this. OP, the reason she stands in front of you but doesn't look at it... it's because the pretty girls aren't just going about their normal lives, standing in places that sometimes are next to or in front of men... no no, they're out in public just to mock you with their amazing bodies that you can't have! The nerve of them, right, having boyfriends when you wanna do them. 1
Hear Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Yep, just us ugly fat girls left. How terrible for you all. You must be ugly fat girl with no guys interested in you....
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Because of threads like this. First of all he's probably a troll (have you seen his other threads). Secondly, you're far from ugly and fat (it would be like if I called myself a midget for being 6 foot tall). Your negativity just seems so misplaced. 4
ThaWholigan Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Because of threads like this. OP, the reason she stands in front of you but doesn't look at it... it's because the pretty girls aren't just going about their normal lives, standing in places that sometimes are next to or in front of men... no no, they're out in public just to mock you with their amazing bodies that you can't have! The nerve of them, right, having boyfriends when you wanna do them. This thread isn't indicative about your looks at all.
verhrzn Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 This thread isn't indicative about your looks at all. Not mine personally... just all the girls who are single. Of which I am. It's the same as if I (or some other female poster) started a thread that said "all the handsome/rich guys are taken!" There'd be TONS of replies from male posters about how she's shallow, she's overlooking all the "nice" guys, etc. Why is it okay to criticize female posters who post those sorts of things, but not male posters when they claim all the pretty girls are taken? 5
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Not mine personally... just all the girls who are single. Of which I am. It's the same as if I (or some other female poster) started a thread that said "all the handsome/rich guys are taken!" There'd be TONS of replies from male posters about how she's shallow, she's overlooking all the "nice" guys, etc. Why is it okay to criticize female posters who post those sorts of things, but not male posters when they claim all the pretty girls are taken? The difference is having a lot of money is pretty quantifiable. There are only so many people who make a certain amount of dollars. When you limit yourself like that, good luck to you. Being good looking, in my opinion is not quantifiable. In any given day I'd say about 90% (give or take) of women I see are attractive. Most of the rest could be attractive if they changed something like wardrobe or adjusted their makeup style (some women go the Mimi from the Drew Carey show route and it's just terrible) or something like that. Plus everyone has a different type they're attracted to. My brother for example is only into white and hispanic girls, while I'm into pretty much any type. 1
ThaWholigan Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Not mine personally... just all the girls who are single. Of which I am. It's the same as if I (or some other female poster) started a thread that said "all the handsome/rich guys are taken!" There'd be TONS of replies from male posters about how she's shallow, she's overlooking all the "nice" guys, etc. Why is it okay to criticize female posters who post those sorts of things, but not male posters when they claim all the pretty girls are taken? Nowhere did I say it was OK. I don't want to say it again, BUT I have to: Anyone can find anyone beautiful. There is not concrete perception of who is beautiful and who isn't in my opinion. Sure there will be guys who say all that stuff, just like there will probably be girls like you who will come into this thread to come after this guy. It's pretty equal all round. And no offense, but I think it's also pretty stupid that nobody realizes that both complain just as much as one another.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted March 22, 2012 Author Posted March 22, 2012 First of all he's probably a troll (have you seen his other threads). Secondly, you're far from ugly and fat (it would be like if I called myself a midget for being 6 foot tall). Your negativity just seems so misplaced. Not trolling uh-uh this is a serious issue to me thats happening alot. I still haven't gotten real advice about this pretty hot girl at the train station I see every morning. No other guys talk to her. They stay away!? Thats so weird 'cause she's so hot. She looks like Scarlett Jo a few yrs younger. I wanna bring myself to talk her up but how when she gives no eye contact to anyone? Is she just a tease??
ThaWholigan Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Not trolling uh-uh this is a serious issue to me thats happening alot. I still haven't gotten real advice about this pretty hot girl at the train station I see every morning. No other guys talk to her. They stay away!? Thats so weird 'cause she's so hot. She looks like Scarlett Jo a few yrs younger. I wanna bring myself to talk her up but how when she gives no eye contact to anyone? Is she just a tease?? The prettiest girls are the ones who never get approached. She probably is shy herself as a result. Either that or she's standing in front of you for no reason other than it's a spot where she can stand up. Only way you can know is if you talk to her. 1
eleanorhurting Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 im pretty i don't have a boyfriend end of thread 1
fetish1980 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 first of all, why are there people attacking the OP based on this question? (I'm not calling any names here!) If any of you feel that insecure and unhappy with yourselves that you have to make sly comments and turn this thread into about "you", that's an issue that you need to deal with. Now, i have seen some big girls that come across as sexy and attractive. If you're big and take the time to work and tone certain areas, i'll holla at cha. . Now there's some women who are big in everypart of their body and carry more attitude than a rich girl a rich girl from a Dallas mansion. It seems that the attractive girls i see (or toned, well dressed, and made up) always seem to have a man around them and it gets on my nerves. Or if they don't have a man, they're usually stuck in their phones or talking to their girlfriends forever like their conversation is so important to that won't warrant interruption. But I realize its all an illusion. Just like when i was engaged, everyone seemed to be single, but now that i'm single, it seems that everybody's with someone. It's all in our perception. fetish
starla33 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 I hope you know its harder for pretty girls to find someone that is quality than it is average girls...
Jeremy87 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 im pretty i don't have a boyfriend end of thread prove it LOL
FitChick Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 theres this 1 pretty girl thats at the train station w/ me every morning & she wont look at me but she always in my way standing there w/ her great body. When I walk on the train she stood in front of me again. Is she interested? Why is she standing there in front of me but not looking? She's confusing me someone help . And what do YOU look like? As someone who used to commute to NYC, after a while you know where the train will stop and how to position yourself on the platform to get in the door first. Don't read anything into it.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted March 22, 2012 Author Posted March 22, 2012 And what do YOU look like? As someone who used to commute to NYC, after a while you know where the train will stop and how to position yourself on the platform to get in the door first. Don't read anything into it. Huh?! I'm standing where she stands & she chooses to stand directly by me the last few times I saw her. The 1st few times I saw her she didnt do that til I started staring at her then she moved closer the next few times I saw her right? I know she needs to catch the train & stuff but if she didn't like me & knew I'm looking she would turn away from my sight. I just dont get the no eye contact thing tho .
Chubbi Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Sorry, but she is not interested. If I never make eyecontact with a guy, that means 1) I didn't noticed him because he was average 2) I was intending to not have eyecontact because I don't want him to approach me. And the fact that you have been staring at her and she still has not looked at you leads me to the second conclusion. She looks like ScarJo? Have you seen the men ScarJo dates? Do you look like them? You really need to tell us what you look like and then I will tell you if she's interested or not.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted March 22, 2012 Author Posted March 22, 2012 Sorry, but she is not interested. If I never make eyecontact with a guy, that means 1) I didn't noticed him because he was average 2) I was intending to not have eyecontact because I don't want him to approach me. And the fact that you have been staring at her and she still has not looked at you leads me to the second conclusion. She looks like ScarJo? Have you seen the men ScarJo dates? Do you look like them? You really need to tell us what you look like and then I will tell you if she's interested or not. U say she aint interested but this can go either way. I see ugly guys w/ a hot girl at least once a day so its possible & these guys are not rich okay? Anything can happen. Just 'cause she's hot like Scarlett Jo dont mean she has to be attracted to hot guys. Her eyesight could see other stuff that we dont know. Anythings possible besides I googled threads where girls do what she does & they said they were interested but didn't wanna make it so easy on the guy so they stayed where he can see them but wanted them to make a move. I'm gonna give it a shot what do I lose in it???
Shaun-Dro Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 U say she aint interested but this can go either way. I see ugly guys w/ a hot girl at least once a day so its possible & these guys are not rich okay? Anything can happen. Just 'cause she's hot like Scarlett Jo dont mean she has to be attracted to hot guys. Her eyesight could see other stuff that we dont know. Anythings possible besides I googled threads where girls do what she does & they said they were interested but didn't wanna make it so easy on the guy so they stayed where he can see them but wanted them to make a move. I'm gonna give it a shot what do I lose in it??? You're exactly right. You have nothing to lose by making a move. Either it will be a yes or no, but I strongly advise you to not just ask her out since she doesn't know you from Dick to Harry. It be wiser to just start up some small talk and see if reciprocates. Try to use something around you as a way to break the ice then work it up from there. Good luck.
kaylan Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 You live in NYC. TONS of pretty women here are single. You do realize single women outnumber single men in this area right? Its not that they all have boyfriends. Some of them do, and some of them simply want to let you down easy since they arent interested in you.
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