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I can't remember if I posted this. Anyway I joined a live music meetup. I haven't gone once yet as it's always at the place I used to go with my ex and friends. Should I go? Coz of the down right cruel way he left me, I don't want to even talk to him. I never heard from him again and he never gave me any closure. I seriously would rather have another wisdom tooth extraction, than talk to this extremely arrogant d bag.

 

I was hoping this meetup would be someone where else for once. Coz I haven't met any of these people I would feel a bit nervous. I wouldn't do it sober.

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Hi Sugarkane,

 

I think you should take some time to heal yourself and not go. How did he leave you?

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Completely dumped me out of the blue. Dumped me by text and insulted and blamed the whole breakup on me.

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If your not comfortable then dont do it. However, it's time to move on and just start enjoying yourself. If going there is going to be like facing your demons, then just do it. You might feel a lot better after once its over. If he is there, then just ignore him. Don't look at him, or make eye contact. Show everyone how far you have come in the last year :)

It's a new year, a new you!

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Thanks I had to get up early anyway to get a part for my car. That was way more important.

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