jmy33 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Ok..Just to get you up to date.. So its been about 2 months NC now and about 6 months since the break up. I still find myself thinking about her like crazy. I try to do everything I can to stay away from anything to do with her. Blocked her on Facebook and all her friends and family, etc. Anyways, I have a thing with a new girl who i do like quite a bit. We have been pretty close now for a couple months. I can tell that she wants to date, but i dont think i am ready. There is nothing wrong with her. She's funny, smart, and pretty, and has an awesome personality. However, i still find myself comparing her to my ex. I don't feel that it is fair to her that i am doing this (she does not know). I want to talk to her about it, but i am afraid of hurting her, and if i do hurt her, i dont want her to leave and perhaps ruin something good that could happen. As i said, i dont have the same feelings for her as i did with my ex. Those type of fellings might just only come with time though. I'm just wondering what should i do? Is there a way that i can stop thinking about my ex? Is there a way i can stop comparing her to my ex? Do i talk to her about it? Do i call off the "relationship" for now? Thanks for reading, anything you have would be greatly appreciated.
BMZMJ Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Well obviously you're not over her yet ...it's not fair to the new girl but it's hard to decide whether to tell her or not. I think I would tell her that I'm not ready for a relationship and hopefully she will understand and stick around. If you rush things you may end up hurting the new girl and never fully feel "into her" Or just keep trying to get to know her and maybe that will help you forget !
robertmathis1026 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Hello! there's nothing wrong about it, if you still love your ex, go and get her! But if your ex already has someone else in her side , then I think you should consider the possibility , remember you can always get your ex back' Are you SUFFERING THE PAIN, because your ex DUMP you? Can You imagine, if you can make your ex BEGGING TO BACK WITH YOU? click here to make it HAPPEN!!
nature Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Sounds like rebounded with the new girl and didn't have time to recover from your breakup. You really need to deal with those feelings for your ex and grieve her and get over her so that your heart will be open to someone new.
mike588 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Sounds like rebounded with the new girl and didn't have time to recover from your breakup. You really need to deal with those feelings for your ex and grieve her and get over her so that your heart will be open to someone new. My ex. dumped me for her ex. 7 months ago. I foolishly ignored the red flags that she still had feelings for her ex. but was assured then re-assured that she would NEVER go back. Well she did. Don't play with this other girls emotions or heart when your still in love with your ex. 100% Agree with the other poster that you need time to deal with your feelings and get over her before opening up to someone else.
robertmathis1026 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 If you love your ex go for it, take her/him back. at this point don't play with other girl emotion, Yes you can be friend and going out with your new girl but don't play the new girl's emotion Are you SUFFERING THE PAIN, because your ex DUMP you? Can You imagine, if you can make your ex BEGGING TO BACK WITH YOU? click here to make it HAPPEN!!
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