mymission Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Its been almost 5 weeks since the break up now. I've stopped crying but I just feel low all the time. Everything still reminds me of him. It just feels surreal that I'm living without him now. Anyone else feel that?
Philosoraptor Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Its been almost 5 weeks since the break up now. I've stopped crying but I just feel low all the time. Everything still reminds me of him. It just feels surreal that I'm living without him now. Anyone else feel that? You can stop this feeling once you accept that he is gone and instead of pining, start living for yourself. I jumped out of an airplane a few weeks after it was over. 1
Author mymission Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 I think I'm in the process of accepting it
redrose123 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Everyone always says "just accept it and move one, quit thinking about it, live for yourself, stop crying and whining" well its really Not that easy.. Nobody wants to feel like this obviously and if there was a magic button I could press to suddenly stop thinking about him I would no doubt press it. I believe healing and acceptance is a process. Of Course you have to have that determination to truly get over someone but it will still take time. If it was so easy to just forget and move on then no one would be posting on this forum. But to answer your question, I feel the same way you do mymission but I believe I am strong enough to get through this and come out as a better and happier person in the end and i believe you will too No one can put a time limit on how long it will take one to accept te break up and be over that person but you just have to have faith that it will happen!
loveydove Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Oh my gosh I definitely feel this, too. I just keep expecting him to be in my life, and he's not. It's so strange, I think it will take a long time. don't let anyone tell you to move on quicker, at the same time, try doing somethings for yourself!
mike588 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Its been almost 5 weeks since the break up now. I've stopped crying but I just feel low all the time. Everything still reminds me of him. It just feels surreal that I'm living without him now. Anyone else feel that? It happens to all of us...those feelings but you will get thru this. My ex. dumped me 7 months ago and I no longer feel that way!! You will too!!
nick d Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I feel your pain.. My ex lived with me almost 3 years. I used to see her everyday.. Then she left me 7 weeks ago. I've been NC for 15 days now and it hurts like hell. I hate life right now.
jennisfora Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 I am still there too. I think for me letting go is so hard because of how it ended. It would have been easier if there had been another girl, or a big fight, or something. Instead it was alot of tears, and he just left. He just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. You feel powerless and like you have no control over what happened, and there is nothing you can do about it. You are used to hearing from this person on a regular basis. Sharing all the little things. There is a void that wasn't there before. Adjusting takes time, and it isn't a painless process. every day gets a little easier. Tomorrow, it will be two months for me, although it feels like two years. I haven't went complete NC, but really low LC, but accepting is hard. I still wish he would call and tell me he made a mistake, that he misses me that he is coming back. But, the hope is fading for me. I no longer expect that to happen. I am no longer waiting for the call. The drive to text him is less too. And, it has only been two months. It is getting easier. I haven't contacted him in three days, and he hasn't contacted me since then, and it's okay. You'll get there.
gotye Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 I am still there too. I think for me letting go is so hard because of how it ended. It would have been easier if there had been another girl, or a big fight, or something. Instead it was alot of tears, and he just left. He just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. You feel powerless and like you have no control over what happened, and there is nothing you can do about it. You are used to hearing from this person on a regular basis. Sharing all the little things. There is a void that wasn't there before. Adjusting takes time, and it isn't a painless process. every day gets a little easier. Tomorrow, it will be two months for me, although it feels like two years. I haven't went complete NC, but really low LC, but accepting is hard. I still wish he would call and tell me he made a mistake, that he misses me that he is coming back. But, the hope is fading for me. I no longer expect that to happen. I am no longer waiting for the call. The drive to text him is less too. And, it has only been two months. It is getting easier. I haven't contacted him in three days, and he hasn't contacted me since then, and it's okay. You'll get there. I opened the door 3 days ago to low contact, no word from him which hurts cause he acted like he was missing me but I guess he wasn't half as much missing me as I did him. It's like I always had him when I was hurting, and now that I am really hurting there is no him. getting easier... been 2 weeks since breakup
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