Jeremy87 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 You go for the girl you're actually interested in. Then you get both; experience AND the girl you like, without destroying another human being's sense of worth. The idea of the "practice girl" is so insulting and vile. I said it a few posts back, but when I discover I've been used like this, I have to fight every instinct not to turn the guy's social circle into a deep crater. Not a lot of women are going to flock to you when they discover you routinely use girls for your own selfish purposes, sexual experience or not. What's funny is the guy I work with really desired this girl and he got some dates. She accused him of being a practice girl even though he was crazy about her. His social skills sucked. A few weeks later I and another guy banger her casually. LOL. That was fun. she has some game too.
Jeremy87 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Don't be too harsh, he feels it's necessary because he believed he can't get a girl at all. Desperation makes a man do funny things...... women don't like desperation. LOL 1
FitChick Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 It means going after somebody I'm not interested in at all in hopes to get some sexual experience. Isn't that what bars are for?
somedude81 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Isn't that what bars are for? No clue. I've never been much of a bar guy. Even then, I don't think women would be throwing themselves at me.
Imajerk17 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 Saw this post in another thread: What is your feeling about the "practice girl" theory that is sometimes given to virgins/inexperienced guys? I don't particularly advocate it as I feel using a girl for practice is a little unethical with regards to the emotions that would be involved, unless there is a clear indication that it would be a casual arrangement, and that is very highly unlikely unless you're paying for it (see Male Virgin = See an escort thread). Thoughts? You know, maybe I'm unusual, but I don't remember losing my virginity to be this big deal. By the time it happened though, we had a couple make-out sessions already.
Imajerk17 Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 By the way, a man does the right thing. There's nothing wrong with "dating casually to see what you want", what IS wrong is leading girls you aren't into at all into thinking you ARE into them, to get sexual experience. 1
Author ThaWholigan Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 You know, maybe I'm unusual, but I don't remember losing my virginity to be this big deal. By the time it happened though, we had a couple make-out sessions already. It's coz I'm old lol (well, 23 is kinda old for a virgin) If I was about 5 years younger it probably wouldn't mean jack. I will say though that I am trying not to let it get to me at all
Dust Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 It's coz I'm old lol (well, 23 is kinda old for a virgin) If I was about 5 years younger it probably wouldn't mean jack. I will say though that I am trying not to let it get to me at all The thing is thugh the "practice girl" seems like such a juvenile idea. It's like that girl in middle school who was willing to let you do stuff to her like kiss etc. You don't need a practice girl. Don't think of it like that. You're awkwardness on the subject is your only enemy. You'll help get rid of that just by doing the real thing. No practice needed. Thats why I tell guys to lie about their virginity by the way. Because it just makes things awkward and awkwardness is the only real indicator of virginity. Make a girl feel like a practice girl or worse TEACHER at your own risk.
Author ThaWholigan Posted March 23, 2012 Author Posted March 23, 2012 The thing is thugh the "practice girl" seems like such a juvenile idea. It's like that girl in middle school who was willing to let you do stuff to her like kiss etc. You don't need a practice girl. Don't think of it like that. You're awkwardness on the subject is your only enemy. You'll help get rid of that just by doing the real thing. No practice needed. Thats why I tell guys to lie about their virginity by the way. Because it just makes things awkward and awkwardness is the only real indicator of virginity. Make a girl feel like a practice girl or worse TEACHER at your own risk. I don't like the idea either . If I was up for that idea I probably wouldn't be a virgin now. I think my virginity stems from a lot more than just a fear of rejection, it comes from not really being completely content with ones lot. I feel I have a lot going for me, just not enough to attract girls unfortunately. So really and truly, I don't actually believe my inexperience is holding me back, it's other things. And if I'm being honest, I can attract girls now, just maybe not the ones I want.....
Dust Posted March 23, 2012 Posted March 23, 2012 I don't like the idea either . If I was up for that idea I probably wouldn't be a virgin now. I think my virginity stems from a lot more than just a fear of rejection, it comes from not really being completely content with ones lot. I feel I have a lot going for me, just not enough to attract girls unfortunately. So really and truly, I don't actually believe my inexperience is holding me back, it's other things. And if I'm being honest, I can attract girls now, just maybe not the ones I want..... It's all about attracting the girls you want. Though really getting the girls you want is easier then getting the girls you don't. Getting a girl is about more then just holding her hand etc. It's about being with some one you want to be with. Don't worry about if they want you back. Let them worry about that. 1
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