gotye Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 i feel like my ex and I shared something special that is worth it... I am not going to beg him or anything, but I carefully explained to him how I believe we are worth it but right now all the problems that caused him to dump me won't be fixed
JasonRules Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 If your relationship was indeed special, as you say, and both of you view it as such than you will make the necessary changes to make things work. Relationships require compromise to some degree. However, if he dumped you then do not pursue him. The onus is on him to realize your worth and make all the moves towards a reconciliation.
Philosoraptor Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 A relationship always takes two to save. As Jason said, both people have to work on their own issues before a successful second chance could ever happen. Either way, work on yourself for yourself, so those issues no longer plague your future.
Author gotye Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 A relationship always takes two to save. As Jason said, both people have to work on their own issues before a successful second chance could ever happen. Either way, work on yourself for yourself, so those issues no longer plague your future. ya, that has been great advice I got from here. treat this like a learning experience and who ever you end up with next will benefit
flitzanu Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 i feel like my ex and I shared something special that is worth it... I am not going to beg him or anything, but I carefully explained to him how I believe we are worth it but right now all the problems that caused him to dump me won't be fixed depends on who's doing the fighting. if it's just you, then it's usually a waste of time, yes. ;o) as noted below, it takes two people, and if you feel it's one-sided and they aren't reciprocating, then they probably don't care.
jennisfora Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 if two people are willing to fight for it, it is worth it. if it is the mission of one person and the other doesn't want it, it becomes a mission of futility or coercion.
robkris8079 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 I gave my all "during" the relationship not at it's end. There was nothing I did to make her leave, there was nothing I could do to make her stay, and there is nothing I can do to get her back.
marqueemoon4 Posted March 22, 2012 Posted March 22, 2012 Most aren't. The trick is knowing which ones ARE.
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