LSgirl Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Pretend you didn't even notice. Who cares, an ex is an ex. It's probaby better this way. The day of the breakup, I deactivated it, but I should have deleted him that way if I ever log back in I don't have to see his profile again, ugh. Facebook is evil when it comes to relationships. 2
CaliBabe Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 That can be very hurtful. But if you think of it this way, it is probably difficult for him to see you moving on with life especially if you are happy, or giving off that you are happy. He is probably facebook stalking you, checking your posts, what you like, comment on, etc. He is probably trying to save himself future pain. It's just part of the healing process. Just pretend like you didn't even notice. Don't respond with any petty posts in response, just go about life like normal.
Author barriob Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 Not at all. I was texting him and he ignored me. I did start talking to someone new recently.
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 So my ex blocked me on fb:( What now?? shout hurray and throw a party! it really doesn't matter, and frankly, you should be thrilled that you won't be able to see what he's doing. i would, if I were you, make sure you completely block him and de-friend him too...whatever.... Two can play at that game. Oh and please know - just for the record - FB is not evil.. as has been implied many times.....it's just that people are dumb. 2
Author barriob Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 Yeah but I wanted to talk to him snd he ignored me. Ge wouldnt text bavk.
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Ignore him back! Read my signature..... it's for the best.....!
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 No. You miss what you had. You wouldn't want him back now, the way he's feeling and behaving. What you had then, is not what there is now. so what you miss - is in the past. 1
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 oh really? we're in the desperate phase are we? I'm sorry, that sux. Don't worry. It will pass.....
Tiera D Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 hei i blocked my ex 1 week post breakup,nothing much just i dont want to see things i dont want to see hope u know what i mean..anyway he wont return ur text means hes still bitter and trying to move on.whats wierd in my case is im the dumpee but i string along my ex the dumper,whenever i broke NC she will reply me and i made her comfort me TD
M2155 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 We have been telling you for months to ignore this dude. He is NOT interested. You sound so desperate and he does not respect you. So it's not surprising at all that he blocked you. It's probably for your own good, he has been shutting you down every way he knows how.
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Mine blocked me while we were still together as part of a mind game--do NOT make the mistake I did and let him know you noticed and how it bugs you; a jerk will feed on that. Do not feed the animals at the zoo, as they say. Some do it to create drama and some do it to heal. Don't contact this person anymore. You owe that to yourself.
69ways Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 We have been telling you for months to ignore this dude. He is NOT interested. You sound so desperate and he does not respect you. So it's not surprising at all that he blocked you. It's probably for your own good, he has been shutting you down every way he knows how. So you been warned and we all told you the same advice, is up to you now if you want to put petrol on you and jump on the fire
Philosoraptor Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 So my ex blocked me on fb:( What now?? You stop paying attention to him all together and just worry about yourself. Right now 100% of your focus needs to be off of him and put towards finding your path to healing and happiness in this world. 1
Author barriob Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 I wanna do that. :/ I just dont know how he cluld be so cold
Chi townD Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Ummm really? Come on girl! First, he broke up with you...then you convienced him to be friends with benefits back to ignoring you. Now, you're "talking to someone new" and to me that translates into "You're dating someone new" So why the hell are you bothered by the fact that he blocked you on FB? Maybe he's doing it to get over you. Because, I tell ya. If he came on here and asked for advice on how to get over an Ex one of the first things I would tell him is to block you on Facebook. 1
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I wanna do that. :/ I just dont know how he cluld be so cold because he can, and because he wants to tell you in no uncertain terms that he - doesn't - want - this. Take the hint, make it final - and move on. honey, take it from someone who's been around here for quite a while - you keep on with the self-pitying posts in spite of all the support you've received - and people are going to start losing sympathy for you. by all means seek advice - but at least row away from the rocks. 2
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