I don't know if im insecure, just being crazy, or maybe it really is happening?

[Foreveryours10]

A little background on us. He travels for work alot, we have been talking alot and everything so I felt the need to ask him what he saw in us or if he even wanted a relationship. The response from him was that he wanted to wait till he would be back for good. He said he liked me and everything but he just wants to see where things go. And he also asked me figuring he does travel alot for work he wasn't sure if I would be up for doing a long distance relationship. So I told him it was something that we could discuss when it came to that time. So it ended with well when he comes back we can see where things go.

 

 

So overall been talking to this guy for a little over 3 months now. He has been traveling for work so when he is in my state we will get together and hang out. We have kissed, cuddled, done normal things one would do if you like each other. Usually he texts me everyday but it's been about 3 weeks now since he had to leave to go back to his job. When he left I asked him what he saw for us and he said friends for now until I come back for good then we can see where it goes from there. He said he liked me and everything but just wants to see where it goes. Since he has been gone he has texted me first a few times but it has def been me texting him first and iniating contact. He will text me back and we will text for a good amount of time. But I just don't know if he is losing interest now and is that why he is not texting me first as much or if I am just being silly over the whole thing. It's not as if he isn't texting me back or ignoring me. And he told me he will be back sunday night to monday morning then has to go back to his job then will be back for good after that week. So if he wanted to just ignore me and drop me he didn't have to tell me that right?

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If your ' long distance" equates to being more than a hundred miles apart then you guys should be talking on the phone, video chatting, etc, not texting each other.

 

I think the idea of the " friendzone" is a cop out. You do not kiss and cuddle your friend. He's not ready for a commitment because if he was, he would still agree to the idea of an LDR. It's the fact he's not sure of how it's going to work out tells me he's not willing to make it work.

[Foreveryours10]

he didn't say that he didn't agree to a LDR. he said he wasn't sure if I would have wanted one since usually when he tells this to girls they don't want anything to do with it.