gotye Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 I am no longer sobbing or anything but I wanted to txt him today a picture of some makeup from a photoshoot knowing he would think i looked hott... then I realized... that's over I was holding back tears the whole time
Mohanson Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 Really sorry your hurting, it's those moments that catch you completely off guard. The little ones you used to share, sucks that they are going to keep sneaking up on you.
Kaotic Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 I'm sorry you feel that way :-( I think webcan all relate :-( I feel like Iost my best friend that I shared everything with when he broke up with me :-( try to think of happy things and share those moments with your friends :-)
Author gotye Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 Really sorry your hurting, it's those moments that catch you completely off guard. The little ones you used to share, sucks that they are going to keep sneaking up on you. ya, just little things most of the time I think; it's over it's over it's over I have new guys that keep me occupied (not in a slutty way, but I have always been the kind to have a few casual flings going on at once... not that I have gone on dates yet, totally not ready, just flirty txts) but when I drive past where he would park usually, expecting his car to be there... it hurts.
mike588 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I am no longer sobbing or anything but I wanted to txt him today a picture of some makeup from a photoshoot knowing he would think i looked hott... then I realized... that's over I was holding back tears the whole time Yeah it took me sometime to realize that it was finally over after my g/f dumped me and I know how you feel. I wouldn't send him that picture....it won't change anything...stick with No Contact and move on the best you can. I know how difficult it is....it's been 7 months for me now and I'm now to the point it just doesn't affect me anymore...I've really moved on and you will too!!! I believed I'd never ever hear from her again but last month she contacts me several times with sorrys and regets....stay strong and you will be where I am now. It really does get better!!!!!!!!
pgh09 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Who broke up w who and how long have u been n/c..... I can Feel for u i am struggling as well u can read my story...Any advice would help..... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/318210-first-post-need-ex
Philosoraptor Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I am no longer sobbing or anything but I wanted to txt him today a picture of some makeup from a photoshoot knowing he would think i looked hott... then I realized... that's over I was holding back tears the whole time We all have triggers. Just have to let them pass and continue on the path that will bring you happiness.
Author gotye Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 Who broke up w who and how long have u been n/c..... I can Feel for u i am struggling as well u can read my story...Any advice would help..... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/318210-first-post-need-ex broke up week and a half ago... day 3 of nc he missed me when we last talked but it was obvious he wasn't hardcore missing me like he did when we were in love. I really can't break nc right now, cause I know it will solve nothing
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