Girls, why do you sometimes stop when ur receiving oral??

[danny in van]

I've experienced at least 50% of the time when going down on a girl that even though she seems to be really loving it, she'll stop me after say 10-15 mins (and then wants me to penetrate her).

And it's not as simple as because she couldn't wait any longer to be f**&^ - cuz we both know that was gonna happen eventually.

It more seems like an emotional switch happens- or some guilt feelings or stopping her??

Girls pls illuminate thx!!

[Lil1]

Do you gradually make it more intense as you're going down on her or are you doing the same movements? Next time you experience something like this ask her if she likes how you're doing it. Turn up the excitement by telling her how good she looks/smells/tastes, and maybe try fingering her as you're tasting her!:bunny:

 

The only times I've ever stopped a guy from continuing is if I'm not particularly enjoying it or if we just don't have time;)

[Emilia]

I've experienced at least 50% of the time when going down on a girl that even though she seems to be really loving it, she'll stop me after say 10-15 mins (and then wants me to penetrate her).

And it's not as simple as because she couldn't wait any longer to be f**&^ - cuz we both know that was gonna happen eventually.

It more seems like an emotional switch happens- or some guilt feelings or stopping her??

Girls pls illuminate thx!!

 

In my case it's is. It's great foreplay but I get to a point where I want him to take it up a notch.

[smudge21]

I've known girls who, oddly, were concerned about cumming during that - one actually told me she felt like she was going to explode and thought she may have pissed on me... I kid you not.

 

That said, I kinda' don't like cumming in a girls mouth. Don't know why really, just feel odd doing it and I usually stop them at that point.

 

Everyone's different I suppose...

[CarrieT]

And sometimes, ten or 15 minutes of the same thing gets boring and overtly sensitive.

 

My favorite lover would eat me out routinely throughout a session; not just once for a prolonged period of time, but on-and-off as we moved around in different positions or in between "mountings."

 

But I liked that we didn't do "A" for this amount of time, "B" for this amount of time, until we get to "C" and both have an orgasm...

[smokey bear]

I would do what the op is describing if i wasnt enjoying the oral, if its all good i wont stop no matter how much i want it to advance, so in my opinion sorry its your technique.

[Cypress25]

And it's not as simple as because she couldn't wait any longer to be f**&^

 

Actually I think that is the reason. 10-15 minutes is a long time for oral, and by that point she's probably ready for sex. The best time to have sex is when you're in the mood for it. If the mood strikes her at that point, she'll go for it, nothing wrong with that. Besides, some women can't orgasm from oral even if they're enjoying it, so if she waited for you to finish, it would never happen.

[danny in van]

Actually I think that is the reason. 10-15 minutes is a long time for oral, and by that point she's probably ready for sex. The best time to have sex is when you're in the mood for it. If the mood strikes her at that point, she'll go for it, nothing wrong with that. Besides, some women can't orgasm from oral even if they're enjoying it, so if she waited for you to finish, it would never happen.

 

sure I guess so...but I asked cuz it always seems to me (when it happens) like some sort of feelings of guilt or another heavy emotion crept in. But thx for answers!!