AndersonJ Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 (edited) Well, Im heartbroken. I was staying the night with her when she asked me to go move my truck because it was in the way for her mother to get home. Get back inside and she read a 2 week old text-message of me saying i would bang another girl from class to a buddy of mine. We have broken up before the first time a few days, the second time a half week. And a few days before of her not talking to me. Now its serious she has deleted me from a relationship on Facebook.. still has my pictures in her profile though.. The last text she sent me was Quote "I can see a future with you Jordan but not right now. You need to do some growing up without me and maybe i do as well. I'm not letting you back in this easily or anytime soon. You need to just live your life and ill live mine then we can try again later. If i can't live without you i want to figure that out on my own without you or anyone else pressuring me to get back with you. I'm confused and i can't get her off my mind. we haven't had any kind of real contact since Friday which was 4 days ago. What do i do?? i How long is later?? do i even have a chance at this? We are two weeks away from being together for a year and we were talking about rings and getting ready to go look at engagement rings! im so hurt right now.. please any advice would help me. Edited March 20, 2012 by AndersonJ Added a few more things
NoneoftheAbove Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 You need to sit back and let her frigure things out. You know you ****ed up right. Learn from your mistake. Dont call her, dont text her. If she wants to be with you she will come back.
Author AndersonJ Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 yeah i know i ****ed up.. What are the odds of her coming back? i mean after her saying that i dont know how to take it
NoneoftheAbove Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 Don't live by the thought of her coming back. Thats one mistake you will regret in the future. The only thing you can do right now is to wait, but don;t wait for her coming back to you. Might or might not happen. So be prepare for it, work on yourself.
Author AndersonJ Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 Thats the hard part. Im expecting to see her come back but like you said i can't... I have been trying to think of anything in the book to get her back, but i guess i just can't and have to let time do its work. If its meant to be i guess it will happen. Im just curious as to how long.
Philosoraptor Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 What was your reason for sending that text? Was it a joke? Was it serious? She was obviously offended and went about this the right way, and even found fault in herself saying that she'd grow up some as well. Right now do what she said, start living for you. Figure out some of the things you wanted to do for yourself and do them, take care of yourself.
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