fusion324 Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 What can I do or say to find out if a co-worker is interested in me? There is a very pretty woman who I am friends with but she has been staying after work with me just to talk and frequently goes out of her way to visit me. I don't want to make things weird at work if she isn't interested. Is there any way I can find out if she's interested in me without blatantly asking. I may be just misreading signs, and don't want to make things awkward if i'm wrong.
ditzchic Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 In this economy pick your job over a girl. Jobs are hard to come by. Women are everywhere. 2
zoomzoom Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 My number one rule: Don't get your honey where you make your money!
wowme20100 Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 1. If she is visiting you while on the job be straight up and ask "I was wondering if you might be hinting that you are interested in me." If the answer is not yes make sure you tell you're supervisor about the situation because this person could report it as sexual harassment but it is only sexual harassment if you continue to ask this person out. If this persons answer is yes my you just got lucky.
TheFinalWord Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 What can I do or say to find out if a co-worker is interested in me? There is a very pretty woman who I am friends with but she has been staying after work with me just to talk and frequently goes out of her way to visit me. I don't want to make things weird at work if she isn't interested. Is there any way I can find out if she's interested in me without blatantly asking. I may be just misreading signs, and don't want to make things awkward if i'm wrong. As the others have said, don't mix business with pleasure I've had that happen before...asked a girl out I work with...three things have happened in my experience: 1) The girl says no, acts like nothing happened and doesn't mind, standard line..."Let's just be friends" (warning with this one: sometimes when they know you like them, they'll still flirt with you if they like receiving attention...don't misinterpret this as her changing her mind) 2) The girl says no and then avoids you at all costs and never talks to you again. This doesn't usually happen with mature women. 3) She says yes, we date, break up and then you have personal drama at the work place. Unless you are both mature and can still respect each other afterwards (rare), it is huge hassle. Oh the best aftermath with this case is when she flirts and dates other guys after you two break up lol it can become very much like a soap opera. Best thing to do, is just not bother with it. Enjoy flirting with her and leave it at that. But since she is so pretty and you're a red-blooded male that probably doesn't have any other options, please follow up and let us know which one of the three scenarios I gave above happens
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