vanek26 Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 Hey guys, I just want to start by saying that whenever I'm having a hard time in my love life, you folks are always there to give me solid info. Thanks so much, it means a lot that total strangers are willing to help me out with thoughtful responses. So there's a girl who I was talking to a few months ago. We're both 22 and we went out for coffee or lunch a few times, and seemed to hit it off. I was really into her, and made a move to kiss her one night. she accepted it, but started acting distant after the fact. When I called her out on it, she told me that she 'didn't see it going anywhere.' I was crushed, but handled it calmly. I told her I wasn't interested in being relegated to 'just friends' so I wished her well and asked her not to contact me anymore. On Saturday, a good three months after we last spoke, I get a random text from her asking how my day was going. She wanted me to come out to a bar she was going to be at for St. Patty's Day. I was very hesitant because of the way things broke off before, but she was adamant that she wanted to see me and talk to me. I convinced some friends to come out with me and decided to go. I got there and met up with her, and she was very drunk. She was all over me right from the start, and spilled her heart out about how much she regretted the way things went down and how she has wanted to text me all the time but was worried i would be angry. One thing led to another and we were making out on top of a table. Obviously, I was very cautious with my optimism. I've had my fair share of drunken hook ups where the girl was disgusted by me the next day. But she swears that she remembers everything from that night, and she meant all of it. We're planning on getting together to walk our dogs tomorrow, and I'm excited but also nervous. I don't want to be all over her and see her get turned off, but I know I can't act timid either. What do you guys think?
Beetleguise Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 I think possibly you are option number 2 as number 1 didnt work out I would play it very cool, dont get too attatched and gently see where it goes gl
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