should i feel that i lost?

[xztjohn]

i was with my girl for 1 year and a half, we got in a fight and i broke up with her and wanted er back. she lives with 4 other guys and 3 other girls. one of her guy roomie convinced her to break up with me and he took her out on dates right after our break up. there was 3 months of drama where she contacted me like crazy and i tried to ignore. she basically contacted me to express her anger and saying how she regrets being with me etc..... one incident inwas at a party and saw her wante to talk to her this a week after break up so it was fresh. i wanted her back she refused got pissed i left the party. guy all macho was like where the **** is he and **** him to my friend. he posted on fb everything rubbing in my face. so i blocked both of them. well i asked her if she had sex with this guy and she said yes so i said it is over. which she begged desperately for me back. this guy is below average looking with lots of acne an would have never gotten her if she wasnt so vulnerable. a month after ignoring her i saw her and wanted her back for the wrong reasons i got rejected. after the break up she said hes not as attractive as me but treats her well and that she loved me the most out of her past bfs and doesnt love him as she did with me. i get bitter when thinking of it. i like want to **** him up and part of me wish i would have taken her back caise this guy is such a ****ing douche bag. should i feel that i lost? why do i feel like i lost to this guy?

[NoneoftheAbove]

Dont feel lost for that person. She is looking for emotional ways of getting to you. Don;t let that happen. Try not the think about it.

[xztjohn]

u think i should have taken her back when she wanted me back?

[stimson554]

Her actions speak volumes about her maturity level. you need to ask yourself do you really want to be with someone like that?

 

shes not worth your time, don't talk to her, take the time to heal and move on.