Ps99 Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 I'm a college student, had a few gf's, a heartbreak in my life, a few girls, good and bad come through. Recently I was talking and hanging out with a great girl. She is a very attractive girl(and she knows it). At first I expected it to flame out really quickly because of how attractive she was and honestly expected her to be shallow. Turns out, she was really fun to be around. We hung out a couple of times and had fun. Texted 2 or 3 weeks, daily. Then she went on spring break, didn't talk at all that week. I figured it was cool, she was on vacation. She came back and still nothing. I texted her once, maybe twice a day for a couple of days with no reply. She wrote on my FB wall once(playing a game) but wouldn't answer my texts She replied to one of my texts, one time. Since then, I can't get any sort of reply. I asked if everything was okay to no response. Is it time to drop this girl and go on or is there something I'm missing?
thehead Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 Stop texting because you're not missing anything. She's moved on.
mickleb Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 I'm a college student, had a few gf's, a heartbreak in my life, a few girls, good and bad come through. Recently I was talking and hanging out with a great girl. She is a very attractive girl(and she knows it). At first I expected it to flame out really quickly because of how attractive she was and honestly expected her to be shallow. Turns out, she was really fun to be around. We hung out a couple of times and had fun. Texted 2 or 3 weeks, daily. Then she went on spring break, didn't talk at all that week. I figured it was cool, she was on vacation. She came back and still nothing. I texted her once, maybe twice a day for a couple of days with no reply. She wrote on my FB wall once(playing a game) but wouldn't answer my texts She replied to one of my texts, one time. Since then, I can't get any sort of reply. I asked if everything was okay to no response. Is it time to drop this girl and go on or is there something I'm missing? Of course it is, I'm afraid. You know you're out of options and she's shallow, so why do anything else? Move along quickly and she'll be out of your hair in no time. Then you'll look back at how much she bothered you, and laugh at yourself. (Maybe, you'll even get to chuckle at how up herself she is.) Good times.
djmm Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 i went through this same situation. she stopped communicating, it sucked but for whatever reason, she moved on. it wasnt because of me and it probably isnt because of you. So try hard not to take it personally. If she wants to contact you, she has your number. Don't pester her and be annoying, that will make it worse.
veggirl Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 Yeah drop it, and don't be surprised if in a few months she comes sliding back. I hope you will ignore that if/when she does. Also, in the future...you can send two, MAYBE three unanswered texts (over like, a week), but "a couple a day" is too much:eek:
FitChick Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 Sounds like she met someone on spring break. Just curious -- if she was ugly and acted the same way, would she still be shallow?
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