Need your honest thoughts

[MarkV]

Hi,if you read my previous posts you will see the whole story. Me and my ex girlfriend broke up just over two months. She moved out as she said that she was confused about what she wants in her life and that i pushed her away when she got back from travelling as I didnt seem like i wanted to push forward with her in terms of engagement etc. There were factors that i felt was holding me back though. Her lack of trying to save for a house etc. Anyway, since the breakup we have spoken once and text twice. I text her the day after her bday and just said 'happy bday'..thats all. I was killing me not saying anything as we didnt break on bad terms at all. She replied with 'thank you,had a lovely day,how are you? I said I was fine and busy with work (im a teacher). She then replied with 'im going out with mum for a late lunch,how is school going? I then said school was good,kids were hyper,have fun with your mum and enjoy the sunshine. She then replied with 'ok thank you xx'. Im not reading into this at all as i was the one who sent the bday message. A lot of people on here have said to just go nc and dont contact her. I dont have any plans to,it was just tough as it was her bday. Others have said that i need to fight hard for her and show her how much i really do want to be with her as that is probably what she is waiting for me to do as when she left I said I was going to fight for her. Since she moved out I have been calm and been pushing forward with good things in my life. She however has been going out lots drinking and not taking care of herself. Her mum called me last week and said that she is keeping in all her emotions and running herself down so that she doesnt have to think about it. Any thoughts etc would be good. I am proud of myself though by not pestering her at all throughout all this,iv just let her be