jamie1987 Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Yeah i know im a fool but i fb her and basiclly said that i wish she could forget about all the bad things thats happened and look to the good and hopefully her feelings would change towards me and she said sorry i cant do that. Basiclly we fell out over the way i spoke to her but ive said im going to go to anger management and get help for her but she says now that she has no more feelings for me, but do u think this is just because she is sick of the way i am and if i change she could take me back do feelings like that come bk i mean we have a daughter together that must count for something. And do u think it was wrong to break the contact i just want to let her know this im just so worried she will meet someone else
gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 she might meet someone else, but fixing yourself and going to anger management would be beneficial for yourself and not just her love fades to lesser extents I believe and it can come back, especially for younger people fix your anger problems so that for whoever you end up with next, you can make it good. Not saying you will or won't make it work with her, but the problems that plagued your relationship will not be solved in two days I told my ex yesterday after a week of nc how I am improving myself. he was impressed but he didn't jump into my arms or anything... and a week isn't even enough to solve the problems.
Author jamie1987 Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 Yeah i know i should but i just keep thinking if she does meet someone else we will be ruined and i wont have another chance to show her i can be a better person and regret it the rest of my life, she has always been the one for me but i was an idiot and never treated her like it but this was due to my anger that was out of my control
gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Yeah i know i should but i just keep thinking if she does meet someone else we will be ruined and i wont have another chance to show her i can be a better person and regret it the rest of my life, she has always been the one for me but i was an idiot and never treated her like it but this was due to my anger that was out of my control well, maybe keep her updated once in a while? not every two days... and she still might find someone else... maybe your anger management and a therapist can help you deal with that if it comes?
Author jamie1987 Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 do you think it makes it worse if i keep txting her and why i would love her to
gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 do you think it makes it worse if i keep txting her and why i would love her to yes, it will make it 100x worse. you will look craaaazy and nobody wants to date a crazy person. Margaret Ruth: Hoping to Get Back Together After the Breakup? There's a Better Answer Than "Yes" this article helped me in how to look at it
CaliBabe Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Jaime, You really need to stop. You will lose her if you keep smothering her. You are so dependent on her. No woman wants a man that depends on them for their happiness! A woman wants a strong man that she can look up to, that is not emotionally weak. You have to get it together not for her sake but for your own. You have to find out why you are so dependent on someone else for your own happiness and approval. Those are things you give to yourself. Your worth is not defined by someone else.
Author jamie1987 Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 Yeah i understand that but i just feel like i could have done better and can. I dhould have treated her like the most important person ever but when i got angry it was like i could not stand her but i love her loads just dont want her to haave bad memorys of me when she did not see the real me
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