pgh09 Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Well I will try to keep this short. Yesterday a bomb was dropped on me. My ex and I have had a up and down relationship since nov of 2010. We started a relationshipw when she wasnt 100% over her ex and it from time to time caused issues in our relationship. I did everything for this girl i loved her with my whole heart. In aug 11 i took her to myrtle beach for a week and 6 weeks later I took her to vegas for her birthday. 1 week after her birthday she started hanging out w her ex "as friends" and i did not find this out until 2 days before my birthday. (oct 20) So i was obviously very upset and we seperarted and we still talked daily but did not hang out. I hooked up w an old friend in early november and the night before thanksgiving i had sex w another girl. I felt very guilty and in early dec i told my ex what i had done, and she admitteted just after halloween she had had sex w her ex. but she said it was weird and so forth. So after i told her she was mad and blocked my number and we didnt talk for 4 or 5 days. )she had said several times in this relation ship she never wants to see or speak to me ever again) I was starting to hang out with a new girl who i actually liked. We made plans to go away for nye w friends so we did. the night before new years eve my ex had saw me with this new girl and from the time she left the bar through new years eve i had about 30 texts and over 50 missed calls. So I agree to talk to her on new years day and basically Start our relationship over. So for the first month and a half things were going very well hanging out w her friends my friends and getting along. Then all of the sudden we have an argument about St pattys day in early march. She wanted to hang out w her friends and we had previous plans but wanted to go w other people. I never said she couldnt but when i asked her why she wanted to stay in a hotel when my house was close she flipped saying im a controlling ******* which i neve was. She has not been diagnosed w a condition but every month a week before her period she gets very irritable and doubts the relation ship and wants to end it. After doing research she has several effect of pmdd which is pms x10. So we argue for a week and she once again blocks my number but would call everynight. or i could still call her from my house phone and we would talk/fight. But last week after her peiod was about over she became the girl i loved and got along with again. SO>>>>>>>>>> Friday we were getting along having a good conversation and she texts me before she goes to sleep to say i unblocked you so we can try to meet up tomorrow.... So its St pattys day I am with friends having fun and she starts texting me but i didnt notice right away she is tryin to meet up and wants me to come meet her. SO i respond and she says where she is I go meet her and were hanging out and she is a little drunk adn says are u hanging out w other sluts before i met u i was like no i left all my friends to meet u. So I get a phone call from a mutual friend ashley, she sees ashley show up and assumes its the girl from dec but it was not so she takes my phone and throws it off a wall and its shattered. I was pissed so i got up and tried to leave and shes like let me talk to u and starts crying I say i dont wanna fight im just gonna leave and go w my friends. she says ya right f off ur gonna go hang out w other girls and punches me in the face, immeadatly starts crying and runs to a bathroom so i leave. So yesterday we talk in the morning and she admits she messed up and agres to fix my phone. we had small talk about our nights and then all of the sudden i call her to see whattime she wants to meet and get me a new phone and she says my mom dont want me to seeu and i dont either im fixing ur phone and never speaking to u again. So we get it fixed and i send a text saying thank u and she responds ur welcome but im sorry its all over there will be no more texts all communication is done. So i try to call and my number is blocked...to i try to send texts from my ipod no respones nothing so i try to call several x from my house and get nothing. Then i get a call from the police at midnight saying she came in and wants to neve rtalk to me again and i need to leave her alone...Im still in shock and now ask what do i do now...I love this girl
Philosoraptor Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 A relationship born of jealousy does not last. You should run from this relationship as fast as you can. She punched you in the face and broke your phone. Instability and immaturity will never a happy relationship make. 1
gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 A relationship born of jealousy does not last. You should run from this relationship as fast as you can. She punched you in the face and broke your phone. Instability and immaturity will never a happy relationship make. lol, unless you wanted that punch ;P jk
Author pgh09 Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 I cant even joke about this. I did so much for this girl and so many people saw it. In the weeks leading up to this she was picking stupid fights and i was nothing but nice and respectful to her.
LSgirl Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 As much as you did everything for her, it's not about you. This girl has jealousy and insecurity issues, enough to punch you in the face. That's very disgusting and she has no right to behave that way. It should make you not want to even be with this girl. She needs to fix herself first, and that could take awhile, not something that can be changed within a few days or weeks. To break your phone as well is very immature and she doesn't seem stable for a healthy emotional relationship. I would let this one go and move on, you shouldn't have to try so hard if she's acting crazy.
Author pgh09 Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 I just wonder if she realizes that what she did was wrong, and i didnt deserve it i will get an appology. And at that time put closure on things maybe?
Author pgh09 Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 To add to this last night she blocked me on facebook.... And today i was on and she came up as "people I may know" so confused posters please help
Eddie Edirol Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 Stop looking for her. She knows she is wrong, and she is blocking you for your own good hopefully. You dont wan to be with someone who cannot control their emotions like this. You shouldnt have been with her when she wasnt over her ex. She needs to be by herself to get over him and you, and you need to find a woman that knows how to treat a guy, and doesnt have insecurity issues. Do not try to contact her, dont look for her on FB. She got you a new phone, dont look back.
Author pgh09 Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 I agree that i dont want to be involved with someone like this, its just of the fact that she was so about hanging out saturday and was continueing to send text after text and when i finnaly met her she was drunk and hit me and broke my phone. And all i wanted was an appology and for her to admit she was wrong. I would assume that if she didnt think she was wrong she would not have paid 570$ for a new phone. And how could u go from being all about hanging out to not wanting to see or speak ever again when i did nothing to cause a problem
Author pgh09 Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 I want nothing more than her to call and say sorry fow how i acted on saturday...she has got to realise what she did was wrong and not that affect of alcohol makes it right but realise it was a cause but not a cause to throw everything away
Philosoraptor Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I want nothing more than her to call and say sorry fow how i acted on saturday...she has got to realise what she did was wrong and not that affect of alcohol makes it right but realise it was a cause but not a cause to throw everything away Oh this gives me a giggle. Never expect an apology as you don't need it. You can find internal forgiveness for her and that will make any apology meaningless. For a couple weeks after my last relationship ended I wanted an apology for being taken away from my family, friends, hobbies, and changing in any way to make her happy.. only to have nothing appreciated for years. I shortly realized that I felt sorry for her and just started to pity how unhappy she is inside. It was easy to forgive her, and I still pity her misery. "To be angry is to let others' mistakes punish yourself. To forgive others is to be good to yourself." - Master ChengYen
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