Jono85 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 That's everything that happened on friday night. all through the date, face to face and smiling staring into my eyes Was she really interested in you as well? Asking legit questions (not when's your birthday..) about you? I dunno man, I've been on dates that I thought went pretty well, and she was laughing a lot, and she wasn't interested. Don't take it so personal. Your posts come across very desperate/needy and you'd be surprised at how girls can pick up on subtle things without you even thinking you're acting desperate etc.
Jono85 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 My dumb a$$ went for a kiss so that's probably why she feel I don't want a platonic friendship Lots of ppl, including myself, just aren't interested in platonic friendships. If I'm going to befriend a girl, and invest my time in her, you can bet I'm hoping to go somewhere with that. That's me though.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 Lots of ppl, including myself, just aren't interested in platonic friendships. If I'm going to befriend a girl, and invest my time in her, you can bet I'm hoping to go somewhere with that. That's me though. In her profile she said she was open to long distance penpals. So I figure i can be a local penpal-lol
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 My dumb a$$ went for a kiss so that's probably why she feel I don't want a platonic friendship Wait you went for a kiss? And she didn't want a kiss?
Author PhillyDude Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 Wait you went for a kiss? And she didn't want a kiss? I mean I hugged and kiss her on the cheek.
Imajerk17 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I mean I hugged and kiss her on the cheek. That's another mistake. Why didn't you go for the lips?
Author PhillyDude Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 That's another mistake. Why didn't you go for the lips? Well I thought it was a step up since I never for a kiss on 1st date
Imajerk17 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Well I thought it was a step up since I never for a kiss on 1st date {Jerk smacks palm of hand on forehead and shakes his head}
RedRobin Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Well I thought it was a step up since I never for a kiss on 1st date I don't like it when men swoop in for a kiss on the lips on a first date... Especially if that is the first time I'm meeting them. If I knew him in another way or he was a friend of a friend, then ok. Basically, there has to be some history there for me to be ok with a kiss on a first date from a stranger.
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I agree, first date kiss on the lips? If it's the first time we met? Probably not. There has to be a LOT of sexual attraction and tension through the date for that to happen. And usually that's not likely on the first date. I like a kiss on the cheek if I really like the guy. Or even just a hug.
sid3 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 My dumb a$$ went for a kiss so that's probably why she feel I don't want a platonic friendship Ah the plot thickens. 1
Imajerk17 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I agree, first date kiss on the lips? If it's the first time we met? Probably not. There has to be a LOT of sexual attraction and tension through the date for that to happen. And usually that's not likely on the first date. I like a kiss on the cheek if I really like the guy. Or even just a hug. Are you and RedRobin serious?? I guess I'm doing this all wrong then haha. At the end of a good first date I always go for the kiss. On the lips. I mean I respect it if she says she isn't ready and turns the cheek, but I believe a man's gotta try.
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Are you and RedRobin serious?? I guess I'm doing this all wrong then haha. At the end of a good first date I always go for the kiss. On the lips. I mean I respect it if she says she isn't ready and turns the cheek, but I believe a man's gotta try. Haha it varies for all girls! I just don't like the idea of kissing a random guy! I mean, maybe if it's a really long date and we've been really, extremely into each other. Maybe I just haven't had as many good dates as you have! Haha
Author PhillyDude Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 I'm about to send the proposition text message and will be done with all CMM after that. "Would you accept a $100 Amex Card to help me fulfill my fetish I have:)
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I'm about to send the proposition text message and will be done with all CMM after that. "Would you accept a $100 Amex Card to help me fulfill my fetish I have:) Wait I missed the fetish thing!
Imajerk17 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I'm about to send the proposition text message and will be done with all CMM after that. "Would you accept a $100 Amex Card to help me fulfill my fetish I have:) Do NOT send that text. 1
Author PhillyDude Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 Do NOT send that text. Sent, sorry. Her number is deleted and now I can move on
Author PhillyDude Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 Wait I missed the fetish thing! She knows I have a fetish for a woman to take off her shoes and walk on my back
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Sent, sorry. Her number is deleted and now I can move on I don't understand what is the fetish!? Prostitution!? You sent her a text propositioning her? I'm confused.
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 She knows I have a fetish for a woman to take off her shoes and walk on my back Oh. That's boring.
Necris Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 Seriously!? I think that's actually a really lame attempt at making conversation... not much else. If she had said, "when's your birthday?" and you said "April 10th" And she said, "Oh good that's a Saturday! Have you ever tried the McFosters!? We totally should!" Then that would be freaking "retarded".. and.. creepy. As for just making conversation about birthdays... that's just you reading too much into it I think. huh...? I don't get it. What kind of signs should we be looking for in a woman if she likes us on a date? All of this is just so wierd and alien I don't understand, maybe I should create a seperate thread on this.
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 huh...? I don't get it. What kind of signs should we be looking for in a woman if she likes us on a date? All of this is just so wierd and alien I don't understand, maybe I should create a seperate thread on this. It's really hard for us too. I was saying that making conversation about your birthdays is just a lame grasp for something to talk about. If she would have suggested hanging out on his birthday and then not talking to him again that would have made her rude. But women don't suggest hanging out often because we have to worry about looking needy and clingy. As for signs, I don't know. It varies for each woman! I put some of my own signs in a previous post.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 21, 2012 Author Posted March 21, 2012 I don't understand what is the fetish!? Prostitution!? You sent her a text propositioning her? I'm confused. I don't expect her to respond it's just a final message i send when a female doesn't call me back after the 1st date. The last time someone accepted the offer was in 2007.
sweetsmmr91 Posted March 21, 2012 Posted March 21, 2012 I don't expect her to respond it's just a final message i send when a female doesn't call me back after the 1st date. The last time someone accepted the offer was in 2007. Really? Maybe you should start offering more.
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