casper12 Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 i broke up with ex gf just over a week ago, as she left me on my birthday to run back to her ex/6years abusive toxic relationship,aday or two after, she mssged me sayn how confused she is but her ex/bf is at her house still, i tell her that she needs to be by herself and sort herself out and get back to me when she has done just that and that id like my things back from hers and to give hers back to her asap! then afew days have passed and i get a message from her pretty much sayin how everything is myfault and that she thinks its best we give each others things back and cut contact! werid cos thats what i told her and she said it like its her idea, then i get a message later saying that her head is all messed up and she promisses that she will call me and we can catch up and talk about everything and put it all on the table- but saying nothing about giving my things back or getting hers back! So i carry on doing my day to day things expecting a call and nothing all day it gets to 7pm so i txt and say "havent heard from you about catchn up?" No Reply! then at 8pm i txt- "???" No Reply? kinda confused? girls/guys any idea on whats going on here???
smudge21 Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 She's pretty much messed up but it comes and goes. I'm sure for the most part she's okay being with her long term guy, but then the doubts kick in whenever they have a blow out, and she thinks about you. Basically, whatever her reasons are not your concern. She left you for her ex, that's it. I reckon that unless you nail this on the head and cut all contact yourself, then she will continue to be back and forth with you, as she probably likes the idea that you're still around despite how she's treated you. I bet your two texts were very warmly received and she's had a great ego boost from them. Get your stuff back, give her hers and then go no contact. See what happens in a week, but either way, move on. This is not healthy for you and will only drag you down.
Philosoraptor Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 She seems to be here, there, and everywhere. Don't contact and don't expect contact. Just work on yourself.
gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 maybe mail her her things? are your things super important? that's tricky she's not your problem, I feel bad for her a bit myself and I can understand how you can... it's hard
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