ex is with someone else quickly?

[Me...IamMe]

Just a question for anyone who's seen this before.

My girlfriend of 5 yrs left about a month ago. I know why she left. I had not grown up and I'm 35 yrs old. I really have done a lot of soul searching and have taken positive steps for myself. I feel her leaving helped me see where I've been messing up in my life and really am changing. Its not for her. I realize than no matter who I'm with its time to be a man.

 

Skip forward to today, I'm talking with a mutual friend of ours who can't keep her mouth shut. She tells me my ex is seeing a guy in his 50's and she is 34. She tells me she doesn't nhave butterflys for this guy she just likes the attention. She also says that she knows my ex still loves me, but she couldn't be with me because she never saw the change.

 

The sickest thing is I absolutely know I have finally grown up and understand how I neglected her.

 

Is there any hope she will see this in me. And what should I do? I really believe she is the love of my life. I wanted to marry her, but I was still growing up. She admitted to me a couple weeks ago that she is scared she will never feel a connection for someone like we have. I know we really love each other. I really feel like I'm in a Hollywood chick flick. What to I do. P.S. we have been in N/C for about 2 weeks except last weekend her son had a sporting event we talked about. Thanks. Any help would be appreciated.

[gotye]

Just a question for anyone who's seen this before.

My girlfriend of 5 yrs left about a month ago. I know why she left. I had not grown up and I'm 35 yrs old. I really have done a lot of soul searching and have taken positive steps for myself. I feel her leaving helped me see where I've been messing up in my life and really am changing. Its not for her. I realize than no matter who I'm with its time to be a man.

 

Skip forward to today, I'm talking with a mutual friend of ours who can't keep her mouth shut. She tells me my ex is seeing a guy in his 50's and she is 34. She tells me she doesn't nhave butterflys for this guy she just likes the attention. She also says that she knows my ex still loves me, but she couldn't be with me because she never saw the change.

 

The sickest thing is I absolutely know I have finally grown up and understand how I neglected her.

 

Is there any hope she will see this in me. And what should I do? I really believe she is the love of my life. I wanted to marry her, but I was still growing up. She admitted to me a couple weeks ago that she is scared she will never feel a connection for someone like we have. I know we really love each other. I really feel like I'm in a Hollywood chick flick. What to I do. P.S. we have been in N/C for about 2 weeks except last weekend her son had a sporting event we talked about. Thanks. Any help would be appreciated.

sounds like you have a lot of chance!