medasist Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 So a little bit of back story, I met this guy in college (not long ago) so we have been good friends for a little less then a year now. We always have a good time going out with other friends from school, but have never really gone out just the two of us.. till last night. I might add, he is married, but in the process of a divorce. So I got a little tipsy with my girlfriends friday night, I saw his name in my phone and figured I miss him, might as well text him. It was late at night so he didnt text me back till the next morning. Later on Saturday evening we were texting and the conversation turned to sex. I knew as soon as he brought it up he was hinting towards it with me. We ended up going to get a drink at a local bar and when we were sitting in our booth talking, he told me he would love to have sex with me. Now, I am attracted to him, and wouldn't mind AT ALL having sex with him, but I'm a little hesitant due to the fact that he is till technically married. Would I be a horribly bad person if I did it? Has anyone else been in this position?
Author medasist Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 maybe I should have mentioned I don't want to date him.. I just want to have sex with him.
Author medasist Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 I know that. But he is also in the middle of a divorce.
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Sounds like the romantic type, I kinda understand your flattery "he told me he would love to have sex with me". If he's married/divorced what's the difference If you just want to have sex with him or not? you obviously want to do it, and seem like you got your mind made up. Just whatever you do, have some common sense and don't fall for "Romeo" and then be back here in a few months about how he doesn't want a relationship and now you developed "feelings" for him and hope that maybe It will work out. And he can't because he has other priorities, not over his ex, yadda yadda yadda. That's almost as typical as a married man saying he's "going through a divorce" just for some action then miraculously still married 2 years later...David Copperfield in the house!, but I mean, It makes It ok anyway since he said he was separated and lied anyway right? Just tell yourself he's separated or something If it makes you feel any better, don't worry you won't be the first or the last women to sleep with a married man, and many women only care If it's happening to them. 1
veggirl Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Ugh no. How long has he been "going through a divorce" for? Where will you have sex, I assume he lives with his WIFE, so your place? Classless. If you are reasonably attractive, find someone else to be FWB with if that's what you are looking for. This idea screams drama and eventual hurt feelings.
Thieves Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 This is a very simple question: Do you like the taste of drama, or not? You should've stopped writing at "...he's married." There are plenty of other men out there who woud love to have a FWBs situation with you, I'm sure. Why choose a married one? But let me just say this again, in case it didn't get through: he is in the process of a divorce. But he is STILL married. Please, for the sake of society's morals, move on from this guy.
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