EtonRifle Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 trying to keep this as simple as possible! i was with my boyfriend for 3 years and we split up for 8 months. he used to be selfish and ignorant at times, but he was never phyiscally nasty to me. after splitting up we've been through alot and tried everything and now we want to get back together. he definatley seems to have realised and changed his ways. but my mum has said she doesnt want me seeing him and that she will 'wash her hands of me' if i do. (not really sure what that actually will mean) what do i do!!??
setsenia Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 My dad was like this with my H before we married and even after. If being with him is what you really want and you couldn't see yourself being with anyone else, do what makes you happy. If not your mom's life and she either has to accept your decision and support you regardless of her feelings for him, or maybe she's better off not in your life. But you have to figure out what really matters to you. Will you feel worse if your mom isn't in your life or if you don't get back together with your boyfriend?
DirtBiker Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 All parents are the same, they think of their children’s life more than anyone and that’s how your mom is looking at you. The only thing you can do is to impress her by something, either from your boyfriend or both of you.
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