sid3 Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 That risk was 50-50 from the get-go. It's the nature of the beast that's called online dating. haha What are you tryna do? Worry the poor guy to death? We shall see. Hopefully I am wrong.
Author fortyninethousand322 Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 I went back and looked. The last girl who agreed to meet up, I asked her out on the third email as well. She didn't flake, so who knows...
Author fortyninethousand322 Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 She never replied back. I'm assuming we put this one in the "L" column.
sid3 Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 She never replied back. I'm assuming we put this one in the "L" column. Is there room? I'm sorry that was mean. I'd say its actually a draw, provided you learned something.
Author fortyninethousand322 Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 Is there room? I'm sorry that was mean. I'd say its actually a draw, provided you learned something. I learned either a) not to listen to other people's dating advice or b) I'm screwed.
Mantis Toboggan Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 I learned either a) not to listen to other people's dating advice or b) I'm screwed. I wouldn't say that it's either. In online dating, you have to realize that you'll have way more failures than successes. Can't go looking for people to blame for every flakey woman. It's just the nature of dating.
Author fortyninethousand322 Posted March 20, 2012 Author Posted March 20, 2012 I wouldn't say that it's either. In online dating, you have to realize that you'll have way more failures than successes. Can't go looking for people to blame for every flakey woman. It's just the nature of dating. I have had an awful lot of failures. Almost two years: two dates with one girl. That's it. Hence why I'm a little distraught.
jobaba Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 I have had an awful lot of failures. Almost two years: two dates with one girl. That's it. Hence why I'm a little distraught. Two of my male friends who were the most unlikely to find women found good normal girls off of online dating. But at least the one I know had to go through MANY rejections and horrid women before he got to one that was good. OLD is rough, so I've heard at least. Here's what I suggest you do. Think about all of the men and women that you know in your social circle ... and all of their friends. Then, think about a girl that you met before that struck you as a nice gal, a good gal. Find out what she is up to and work from there.
sid3 Posted March 20, 2012 Posted March 20, 2012 Hence why I'm a little distraught. Don't be. You'll do just fine. Its just going to take a little time, some rejection, and a lot of frustration. It's ok to take other peoples' advice, you just need to make better choices in what's good advoce:laugh:
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