gotye Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 (edited) he and I talked about how we missed talking and I said I would be fine with low contact and I explain that we could get the spark back and possibly make it work if certain things are fixed why we don't see each other, but we won't wait up for each other He was impressed with how I said I seriously cut back on drinking. I wish that would have made him jump back to me, but knew it wouldn't. he agreed and thanked me for calling and said he missed talking and I said I had to go. it felt nice Edited March 18, 2012 by gotye added stuff
Moonless sky Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 So are you two talking now or meeting up? Very lucky to even make contact with your ex and I'm happy it was more of a positive one.
Author gotye Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 (edited) So are you two talking now or meeting up? Very lucky to even make contact with your ex and I'm happy it was more of a positive one. I told him we can keep low contact, talk once in a while, and maybe meet up after a while. It'd just suck if he found someone else by then, but I highly doubt he will I have a feeling we might try again then have a mutual breakup we are both fine with Edited March 18, 2012 by gotye added stuff
Moonless sky Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I told him we can keep low contact, talk once in a while, and maybe meet up after a while. It'd just suck if he found someone else by then, but I highly doubt he will I have a feeling we might try again then have a mutual breakup we are both fine with What'd he think about this? Was he happy to hear from you? I wish my ex would communicate with me.
zanzi Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Thats really good I hope you can heal. I too broke no contact. :/ ahhh, but Id been doing it for ages. Now he wants to meet up and talk. ;0) yeayeahhhhhh!
Moonless sky Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Zanzi, keep us updated if you'd like . I'm looking for hope and I'm happy both of you were able to have a decent conversation with them.
Author gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 What'd he think about this? Was he happy to hear from you? I wish my ex would communicate with me. i talked to him again and we discussed why it ended more. how he was afraid to get stuck in a bad relationship like he was in his marriage he was very interested in having a physical relationship, I was too but am not ready for that it was a lot of; it could happen, I can't say it wouldn't and me saying why he got scared and backed out I am turning off my phone now for a while so I don't hope he messages me
Moonless sky Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 i talked to him again and we discussed why it ended more. how he was afraid to get stuck in a bad relationship like he was in his marriage he was very interested in having a physical relationship, I was too but am not ready for that it was a lot of; it could happen, I can't say it wouldn't and me saying why he got scared and backed out I am turning off my phone now for a while so I don't hope he messages me Aw well it's a step and it's nice it happened. You have to stay strong regardless because well like you said it could happen but atleast you've made contact. How long have you two been NC? I feel so broken right now.
Author gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 Aw well it's a step and it's nice it happened. You have to stay strong regardless because well like you said it could happen but atleast you've made contact. How long have you two been NC? I feel so broken right now. a week actually not long i don't think it'll work out in the end at this point. all i really hope for is a fun physical fling that will die off slowly and we both move on like adults
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 a week actually not long i don't think it'll work out in the end at this point. all i really hope for is a fun physical fling that will die off slowly and we both move on like adults sounds like a recipe for disaster.
Author gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 sounds like a recipe for disaster. probably lol! I want to follow my heart a bit
Author gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 i have come to conclusion any time he texts me I have to make it known I am changing and making myself better
Moonless sky Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Be careful, you could end up hurting yourself more. Not sure what your feelings are for him but I personally don't think I could just do a physical fling.
Author gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 Be careful, you could end up hurting yourself more. Not sure what your feelings are for him but I personally don't think I could just do a physical fling. ya, keeping him at arms distance right now, could easily get hurt, but not ready to let him out of my life
Author gotye Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 so even more progress today not with him but with conclusion I didn't hear the same lovestruck man I did before, and this is making me feel really ok with us not being together anymore he said he wouldn't say he would never be interested in trying again and kind of agreed with my assessment of what would have made it work... but it didn't work... and I am not going to hope it ever will I keep repeating to myself; we'll never be together again over and over and over
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