heatherfeather Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I called him and left him a voice message about exchanging our stuff. That was about 4 days ago and he hasn't returned my call. Either he A: doesn't give a crap about exchanging our stuff or B: He wants to hold on to it as it reminds him of me. No it isn't stuff I am just going to let him have either and the stuff I have of his is too big to mail. Not sure which one it is ...hoping the latter but I am fine and content without him...my mind is clear and my heart is in a very good place right now.
jerbear Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 His heart might not be where you are right now. You might have to wait a few more days to exchange stuff. After a few days it would be like he does not care about exchanging stuff or he threw your stuff away.
69ways Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 14 months later STILL have not my stuff..........who cares , let her keep them
Author heatherfeather Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 It has been 3 weeks since we last saw each other, so IDK, it would be nice to get my stuff back and for me to give his back to him.
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 judging by your posts? Definitely (A). you need to go with a friend to his house, pick your stuff up, and leave his stuff there - then walk away. He won't respond or reciprocate. so, say nothing except - "I'm just here to pick up my stuff please." If he claims not to have it, or to have thrown it away - prepare yourself for this - it's a possibility - then give him his stuff, with "well now we know who the bigger person is, don't we?" And just go.
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