that dude Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Long story short, my ex girlfriend cheated on me and we broke up. She wanted to get back together but i did not want to. I used to have feelings for her, but those disappeared even before we broke up. Now I have a different girlfriend who I like a lot and im happy with her. My ex was wrong for me in a lot of ways and i will never go back to her. As bad as she was as a girlfriend, i still find myself missing her even though i am with someone else. I can't stay off her blog and the thought of her hooking up with someone else really bothers me. She was my first girlfrind, kiss and i lost my virginity to her. I want to move on and stop thinking about her but I can't. She hates me because i wanted to be with the other girl instead of her and she wont be freinds with me. I am really confused and don't understand why i still want her around.
Professor X Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Well, give it some more time, she was your first, so it might even take you years to forget about her. Just keep a balanced head, don't you dare go back to her, and if you can, avoid her blog, delete her from your FB, delete all the pic of the 2 of you, etc etc, just try and erase her to the best of your abilities.
Moonless sky Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I used to feel this way but I had a really great guy that was my boyfriend. It ended up I went back to him (the ex) and we broke up within a few weeks, I hated myself for going back. I decided to stay with the good guy months after this break up because he still loved me and understood at the time I was confused. So as a lot of time passed, I can say I no longer love him because I learned that my boyfriend was so much better and it toke a long time but I fell in love with the "new guy" and wish I would of never ever went back to that other ex. Stay with the girl you're with and focus on her, eventually the ex that cheated on you will no longer matter.
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