jamie1987 Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 So feelling rather down today really want to txt my ex and tell her ill be waiting for her to change her mind if she decides to take me back is this a good idear. I thought i could go though with the no contact its only been 2 days since i last spoke to her and she told me to stop txting. She told me that she does not love me anymore and i said give it time and the feelings may come bk due to the way i have treated her. I was a fool in the way i spoke to her when drunk always regreted it afterwards i told her im getting help but should i tell her ill be waiting as the last time we spoke i got rather angry and said i did not need her and that im getting over her but im not just wanted to hurt her the way she is hurting me?
Moonless sky Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 I feel your pain, greatly. My boyfriend just broke up with me on thursday. I can't sleep, can't eat, hell I can't even function. I haven't started the NC because my heart is hurting so much and I need him back. I think you should tell her how you feel otherwise she's going to think you'll never want her agian but idk really, I'm no love doctor. I can't see my life without this guy.......just like you idk what to do...and I'm sorry.
Author jamie1987 Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 Hi thx im really not sure what to do i feel like im giving into her by txting or phoneiing but i keep thinking there may never be another chance if i just leave it too long
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 So feelling rather down today really want to txt my ex and tell her ill be waiting for her to change her mind if she decides to take me back is this a good idear. I thought i could go though with the no contact its only been 2 days since i last spoke to her and she told me to stop txting. She told me that she does not love me anymore and i said give it time and the feelings may come bk due to the way i have treated her. I was a fool in the way i spoke to her when drunk always regreted it afterwards i told her im getting help but should i tell her ill be waiting as the last time we spoke i got rather angry and said i did not need her and that im getting over her but im not just wanted to hurt her the way she is hurting me? She said don't text her. Don't text her. Give her that. Otherwise you are being a pest and she will resent you. Let her contact you. If she calls, you will be there, but. do not wait around.
Author jamie1987 Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 She said don't text her. Don't text her. Give her that. Otherwise you are being a pest and she will resent you. Let her contact you. If she calls, you will be there, but. do not wait around. Yeah but should i let her knopw that ill be here for her as we left on bad terms and said alot of stuff like im getting over her etc
blotter Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Contacting her now will make you look pathetic and desperate. If those are the traits you wish to project, then go ahead and contact her tell her you will be putting your life on hold and waiting for her if she changes her mind. Women are damn smart and when you told her you were getting over her she knows for a fact the exact opposite is true. This stuff is so easy for them to read and your coming off desperate and reaffirming her decision about the break up.
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