Lonely_lonely Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Its been i dont know hown long since i went NC on him , i ignored every attempt from him to reach out ,I felt strong to not take his calls and ignore his texts , I missed him from time to time but I remained strong and stopped my self, I still Facebook 'stalk' him from time to time but it really don't affect me much to see him acting like nothing happend and like he can move on so easily , it used to , but now the pain is less .. He was on my mind , then my land phone rang , it's an unknown caller , I answered, it was him!! I was mad to hear his voice , because he just broke my NC , I didn't want him to hear my voice ever again Anyways ....... I acted all unaffected and talked normally , I didn't ask him about him or how his doing , but he was telling me about how great his vacation is in Japan (we were supposed to go there together) , it was killing me inside so I just told him that I will call him later and pretended to have another call and I hung up He seemed like he wanted to talk and acted real happy that he is hearing my voice Did I do anything wrong ? I was doing fine , and now he ruined my healing progress and I can't stop thinking of him and what he is doing and who he is there with , I'm obsessing about him again Please help m is there anyway I can undo the damage ? ---------------------------————--------------------------------------------- that's my original story For more info http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/314035-dumped-one-week-before-wedding
nick d Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Honestly, the best thing would be to just go back to NC so you can heal. Everyone has setbacks in NC. And you will probably have a rocky next few days, but then you should be back on track.
Linda Lee Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 The way I see it, throwing in the towel now would be a failure. Persevere and try everything in your hands to make this NC work. Soon you will be able to overcome the past memories
Author Lonely_lonely Posted March 18, 2012 Author Posted March 18, 2012 Thanks for the replies , but I'm so lost and confused I don't know how to restart now
Philosoraptor Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 Sounds like he called to rub it in your face "how good he is doing". This is usually done by the immature as a way to feel like they are "winning". If you started off fine he may have needed to up the details in order to try and get a reaction out of you. Just go back to what you were doing and work on yourself. If you don't know the caller, then don't answer it. 1
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