My ex sends me a text 2 months later?

[Randybrandt]

I haven't spoken to my ex in 2 months and sadly I have gone through some rough patches. My grandma is in the hospital and my cat recently died so I haven't been in my best place lately. She texted me asking how I was and I said not very good to be honest. Grandma is in the hospital and Winston died:sick: Normally she would go on and not have a care in the world because that is how self-centered she is and she actually texted me back and said Randy I am so sorry to hear about Winston he was a good cat I am so sorry to hear that it really breaks my heart. She also said Randy I am so sorry about your grandma I really hope she is okay and I hope everything turns out for her. I said thank you for your good vibes. I was a little shocked she texted me after a month and was also shocked she actually had a heart when we were dating she was so self-centered she couldn't care about anyone's feelings but her own. I just wonder why after a month she would suddenly text me and suddenly actually have a heart? Thoughts? I have been talking to this girl in my class so the thought of even dating her all over again hasn't crossed my mind and I have been so pre-occupied with my own things I really hadn't thought much of her. My ex also has a boyfriend who she is in love with so why does she feel the need to be texting me? Shouldn't she be spending time with him?

[freetolove]

just move on. she might just have been thinking about you. it's normal

[gotye]

I wouldn't try anything with ex, but maybe she understood what she was doing wrong and worked on herself

[M2155]

It's just a text. Sometimes we think about people from out past. Even the most self centered person can respond with condolences on a death. I'd say dont read into it. Appreciate the thought and keep moving.

[MarlaOryx]

She's trying to relieve some of her own guilt.

 

Go out with the new girl.

[BewitchedandBothered]

they all text us after some time has past; I often wondered why they save our numbers; I deleted my ex from my phone and I would not recognize his number anymore as that much time has gone by. In your case, she could toss you breadcrumbs and want you to still have feelings for her--ego boost; "hey, I'm still here, do ya miss me? can't touch this!!" Seriously, don't take it seriously. She's your ex now. I found out that my ex's dog died beginning of the year. He had enough people sending condolences; no reason for me, the dumpee to be texting him.