heavy metal Posted March 18, 2012 Posted March 18, 2012 Hey everyone, so I met this girl about a month ago and we pretty much talked all night, then a couple of days a group of us caught up again for a few hours and then a few days later again we all caught up gain for a night. when I say me I mean me and my friends and this girl and the people she was with, the only reason I went to these things to see her again because I thought she was really awesome and I couldn't stop thinking about her, I thought this would fade as I knew I had no chance with her as she had a boyfriend and would soon be travelling on from my area. But still a month later she is all I think about, we still talk on facebook to keep in touch most days but I still think it is stupid to be obsessed with a girl I've only met 3 times lol. like seriously the best parts of my day is when I get messages from her. I try not to flirt with her or anything as its just the not right thing to do by her bf who was a alright guy but she must of been able to tell as she asked me if I liked her via a message I said yes and she said something like aw that's cute but then we just continued talking as if nothing had changed .anyway I've been trying to forget her.. Tried going out meeting new people but nothing works I think I'm going crazy which sounds do stupid as I only met her 3 times but I don't know what to do I know I have no chance, I might not even ever see her again but still I can't get her out of my head.. Any advice?
Lauriebell82 Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 I think the only way to forget her is end the friendship and not contact her anymore. She doesn't reciprocate your feelings and has a boyfriend, so if you continue to talk to you for you will just fall harder and harder. Then it will be REALLY hard to break contact. Do it now before you become more and more attached.
Author heavy metal Posted March 19, 2012 Author Posted March 19, 2012 thanks for the advice, you have made me realise I have 2 options, completely cut off contact or settle with staying friends. Both will be hard but i really couldn't stand not talking to her at all, so I will have to learn to live with it and just be friends, I couldnt live with myself if I stopped talking to her.. so I'll learn to live with it, I'll find some method. I have to. thanks again
Frank13 Posted March 19, 2012 Posted March 19, 2012 thanks for the advice, you have made me realise I have 2 options, completely cut off contact or settle with staying friends. Both will be hard but i really couldn't stand not talking to her at all, so I will have to learn to live with it and just be friends, I couldnt live with myself if I stopped talking to her.. so I'll learn to live with it, I'll find some method. I have to. thanks again Been there, done that. Believe me, you will regret this decision. Lauriebell82 was right.
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