Ms. Red Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 No she's just making excuses not to tell now. If everything Brighter says about this OW is correct, I think she needs to tell yesterday. She needs to quit talking about doing it and actually do it.
Artie Lang Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 (edited) ^i agree, that's why i keep pressing the question. she seems to ignore my inquiry regarding exposure. Edited April 19, 2012 by Artie Lang
frozensprouts Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I am of the opinion that "outing" and affair to the other man/womans spouse is something that you need to give careful consideration to. I do believe that they deserve to know, but if the end result is that you just end up getting embroiled in a whole lot more "drama", is it really worth it? It may be different in every situation, and sometimes, it's best to do it right away...waiting will only drag out the drama and keep you mired in a place you don't want to be as well as ties you/your spouse to the affair much longer than you ever want to be. Logic would say to out her as soon as you can, and then' get the hell out of Dodge..." the problem is that there are a few other men/women to whom logic does not apply, and one does have to carefully consider what steps to take...but whatever steps they may be, the sooner you take them, the better you are, as you will be able to put it behind you that much sooner 1
Artie Lang Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 i agree that it should be dealt with extreme caution, but should be done nonetheless. these other BS's have a right to know. furthermore, exposure holds the other WS accountable to his/her spouse. they get no free pass.
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